I have tryed to get into this, but have to say i dont mind him wearing my underwear but i draw the line at a dress. am i being fair or does he really fancy me as he says it helps him to get aroused
2006-07-17 16:20:36 · 12 answers · asked by seu_seh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shut your eyes and enjoy him dressed in whatever makes him happy. If he is a good man in every other way, then be happy he wants to truly share with you in every way.
It's a rare man that will open himself fully. Most just show you what they want you to see and tell you what they want you to know and think.
2006-07-17 16:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by yeller 6 · 30⤊ 13⤋
I'm considered a sex expert and for some men this really is normal. It doesn't mean that they are gay or freaks. Some men have father daughter fantasies. That doesn't mean they all want to have sex with their daughters. It's usuallly because it's naughty and forbidden. All people are attacted by different things. That being said YOU have the right to decide what you can or can't live with. What you do or do not want in your sex life. I would sit down and try to talk to him about it. Try to make a comprimise that you both can live with. I will also tell you that there are alot of men who do like anal stimulation also, so don't be surprised if that comes up next or already has. That is NORMAL. Men have what is really similar to a g spot in their prostate. If you keep an open mind it will be more sexually full filling for both of you.
2006-07-17 23:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by kurlskolor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you have a big problem!
How long have you been married? Was there really no hint of this before you married?
Personally, I would draw the line before the womens underwear part and run the other way as fast as I could ... but that is me.
No, you are not being unreasonable. And only you can decide how much is okay.
2006-07-17 23:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a situation, however don't start filing for a divorce. Get some counselling first, especially if he is a good person and a good provider. How long has this been happening? Get to the bottom of it. One and one, he may not want to reveal the truth to you, but with help, he'll probably 'fess up. In my opinion, if its been going on a while, he may not be able to stop. If hes fairly new to this, then you may be able to explore other avenues that appeals to both of you. Good luck!
2006-07-17 23:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by La Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he wants sex just fill a rubber glove with Crisco, he wont be able to tell the difference.
You also might wanna try a cucumber up his bung hole. If he likes it though, you may wanna consider a divorce.
2006-07-17 23:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG!!! Honey I am sooo sorry but your husband is a freak!! My husband would never do that he is to much of a man to wanna dress like a woman.
2006-07-17 23:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and it sure wouldn't turn me on I'd want a divorce.Oh it makes me feel like I would be with a really sick guy or another woman.I don't know how you manage this.
2006-07-17 23:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God...can't stop..laughing. You married a freak. Does he wear..the..your bra for his man-boobs too?
2006-07-17 23:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone,
Rather they admit it , or not,
Has a Fetish ~!
But to me, That would be a turn off ~!
But again, That's just my opinion ~!
~^~^~^~Peace.
2006-07-17 23:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow how strane, still whatever turns you on
2006-07-18 04:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by stephen d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and if he did i would leave him
2006-07-17 23:34:34 · answer #11 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋