I'm leaving my husband but want to tell him upfront that I'm dating. We haven't been intimate for sometime and live seperate lives. He has other girlfriends but it seems different if I'm seeing someone else.
2006-07-17 16:13:50 · 20 answers · asked by love154100 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, do not tell him. It will only make things worse. Men automatically deep down feel that they own their woman. He will make the divorce worse. Wait until after the divorce ...if you really want to. Since you are going through a divorce, it's none of his buisness anyways.
2006-07-17 16:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by missy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 06:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell him that for . He seeing other women, why would he care to hear about you dating. If he cared enuf, he wouldn't be with or seen with other women. Also you and him getting a divorce, he has no business in your life.
Unless you want him to know, and hope it would make him jealous. The maybe thats wy he is with other women for. He could be thinking the same way.
But if the realtionship is dead and gone. Only thing that rolling in between you two is tumble weeds. Then he just mind his business, and you go on with your life from there.
2006-07-17 16:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no difference and it won't bring him any reaction as he has no interest in getting to know whether you are seeing someone else or not coz he has someone in his mind already.
If you wanna take revenge or just make yr husband jealousy which will make you proud and feel happier, you could do something else like grooming yourself which will make you more attractive than his now current gf and you are doing well than him which all these changes will definately make him regreted on his decision for a divorce.
2006-07-17 16:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the only reason you are dating is just to get under your soon to be ex's skin. It is not fair to use another man to "punish" your husband for his behavior. Are you sure you want to completely let go of your husband?
2006-07-17 16:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you gain by telling him you're dating someone else? Probably nothing. The marriage is over. Don't go for revenge.
2006-07-17 17:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why?Obviously he doesn't care or he wouldn't have other women.He may act jealous just because you may be gone if he decides he wants you back and you are with someone else.I'm not trying to be mean but it is not any of his business.He has his life and you need to get on with yours.Let him find out when he finds out.
2006-07-17 16:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase is "let sleeping dogs lie". Don't tell him. It could only make matters worse and he will find out eventually.
2006-07-17 16:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by daddysnurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you leave him and get a divorce, will you call him and tell him your dating? when you remarry, will you call him to let him know? my point is, that you've decided to leave your marriage... i think that telling him that you are dating is like saying... you werent good enough, so i am out looking for your replacement now...
personally i wouldnt tell him... marriage is over... so its none of his business... get my point?
2006-07-17 16:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Resasour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why add more drama to this occasion? No need to offer up that information to him. Move on.
2006-07-17 16:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋