She promised to pay back when she graduated but did not finish school. Bank wants their money and I cant afford the payments and she refuses to help.
2006-07-17 16:12:51 · 20 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-07-17 16:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by the few words you tell us, I think you took out the $80,000 because you have GUILT over being some kind of 'not there' parent. And, being the smart kid she is, she USED you! YOU PAY THE LOAN. You should have told her to get a job and work herself thru college. Who made up this scheme that we OWE our kids a college education anyway? THEY OWE US! As a matter of fact, birthdays should be celebrated by the MOTHERS - not the kids. What did the kids have to do with anything anyway?
2006-07-17 16:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately if you borrowed it in your name you have to pay it. She's not liable. If you cosigned then you may be able to take some action. I'm sorry about your situation if you took the loans in your name. From now on, make the person get the loans in their own name.
If it's government loans, you can call and get a free economic hardship deferrment. That means a break from paying for a while. I did it for a year when we were having trouble.
Good luck!
2006-07-17 16:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can because she promised that she'd pay. The problems are that she'll most likely be pissed at you for a long time, you need to prove your case with good evidence like with a written document that you both signed or a witness, and legal fees will hurt.
2006-07-17 16:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Dept is yours. You signed it with the responsibility to pay it back. You can sue. It won't work. If you win it cannot be enforced. I do apologize and am very sorry for your situation. Live and Learn.
2006-07-17 16:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by billlucas14all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was of legal age and the argreement was that it was a loan to her that was to be paid back according to some sort of schedule then yes she would be obligated to pay. This stuff crops up on Judge Judy all the time.
2006-07-17 16:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to be nicer and help out but try not get to the sue part.. that would suck for both of you.. i'm sorry she's like that though.. not cool at all.. sure you'll find a way to make those payments.. just hang in there.. you can do it
2006-07-17 16:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to be able to prove in a court of law that she agreed to pay it back. It sounds as though you had a verbal agreement for her to pay it back when she graduates. Even if you can prove that this agreement was in standing, if she hasn't graduated then she would not be obligated to pay it back.
2006-07-17 16:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Garth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you can prove beyond a reasonable doubt that you specifically loaned her the money to go to school, and she spent it on something else, you have no case.
2006-07-17 16:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by mbezlr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she borrowed it and she was over the legal age in your state, then yes. You could take her to small claims court. If she wasn't of legal age, then no. The judge would laugh in your face.
2006-07-17 16:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by alacaliwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can sue anyone you want to as long as they are over 18, in most states. there are things you need to keep in mind though such as, you may loose your daughter forever, she may not speak to you again.
if you have considered this already, i would find a lawyer before your statute of limitations runs out.
2006-07-17 16:17:03 · answer #11 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋