I am 16 years old and my dad is engaged to this girl who is 22 years old and she is pregnant but the problem is that you are your daddys little girl but lately he hasn't been paying to much attention to you and it is starting to hurt me inside that i am losing my dad to another girl!!!!!!! Help please :((
2006-07-17 16:08:06 · 9 answers · asked by blue_eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I was a senior in high school my best friends dad got his 22 year old girl friend pregnant and she moved in with them.. my best friend went crazy because of the same reason.. she did some mean things to her.. She finally instead of acting out she sat down with her dad and talked and he didn't even realize that he was acting this way.. he is prob.. occupied with her and the baby and doesn't realize how it is affecting you.. you may not like her.. but when that baby comes you will fall in love with your new brother and sister and later on in life might find her to be a good friend to talk to specially since she is close in age.. Just remember that you have every right to feel left out and hurt.. but your father will never know if you don't' open up to him.. You were his first girl in life and won't ever replace you..
2006-07-17 16:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie your always going to be daddy's little girl and nothing can change that.. right now he's just going through the excitement of being in love..and the excitement of a new baby on the way.. (which is normal for anyone) he doesnt love u any less i promise you.. he's just excited and this will pass trust me this will pass.. all relationships start really giddy and wonderful then settle into routine .. and if it bothers u so much talk to you dad and tell him how it feels and see if maybe he can set some just You and Him time aside.. and no matter what always know this lady will NEVER have your daddy's heart the way u do.. but try to be happy for him.. and be excited about your new brother or sister..
Good luck..
2006-07-17 23:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i am engadged to a 29 year old and im 21 and he has 3 kids the oldest is 10 a girl. Tell you dad how you feel, but dont get mad at him because he loves her and you dont want to see you dad sad or anything do you? Ask your dad if you and him could have a day just you and him to do anything you want! Do you like you new mom? My kids like me they have talked to me and there dad about this and everything has goten much beter between all of us!!
2006-07-17 23:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by sissy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really unfair.. i understand what your saying. Your dad is showing her more attention because he probally notice that is the only thing that makes her happy. He is very wrong for that, and then she is pregnet! wow.. so now he have another child to take care of, his attention towards you might fade even worster once the child is born..... so now is your chance to let him know how you feel about this all, and how does she act towards you?
I been in the same postion before.
2006-07-17 23:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry that your feelings are hurt but is your dad happy?thats the first thing second talk to him i am sure you are still daddys girl
2006-07-17 23:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by teeluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept the fact that your dad cares about this woman. Tell your dad how you feel and suggest to him that he sets aside some time for just you and him to do whatever. I'm sure he will understand how you feel if you just talk to him.
2006-07-17 23:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over it. You'll be eighteen soon and have your own life. Make the best of things and you won't lose your dad. Good luck.
2006-07-17 23:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think of it as losing your dad.Talk to him let him know how you are feeling.When you talk to him don't whine and use her name alot.Just be cool and speak from your heart.
2006-07-17 23:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her! Its so much easier on everyone...
2006-07-17 23:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋