my fiance and I used to go out on the weekends and have fun dancing, walking, talking, etc. I feel that since we have moved away from montana to indiana and had our baby. we have had some rocky times in ur relationship before, and I don't know how to positively reinforce her self esteem to help her to be more outgoing like she was in montana. I have a problem with working, I am a hardworker but my working takes away from my time with my fiance and my kids (we have 3). I am not sure how to reinforce my fiance that she is beautiful and that I love her with all my heart without it sounding like lines or lies?
2006-07-17 16:03:34 · 10 answers · asked by shadowdtat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
as long as you're saying what you feel then it's real.. just try to be strong and hold it together.. try to do something fun that would be refreshing for you and your family.. take a break.. you seem stressed.. can't blame you.. but life is beautiful too.. try to take it a little easier and find something to enjoy.. you could remind your fiance about how you first met.. funny things you both said or did.. special moments that you had together.. that helps sometimes.. give it a try.. and i hope it works well for you.. best of luck.. just remember.. the darker it gets the sooner is the sun to rise
2006-07-17 16:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should treat her to a nice make-over at a salon. She just might need some time away from the kids. She needs some confidence and there's no better cure that a nice haircut and some make up. Take her out on a date (that is if you have a sitter) if not pick 1 night out of the week and put the kids to bed early and spend the night complimenting her hard work and how great she looks. Maybe you've just been lacking to show her how much fun she used to have by not taking her out.
2006-07-17 16:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult men look *extra* embarrassed with the aid of being underweight than with the aid of being obese. He could be afraid you will see him as a skinny weakling, or too boyish, etc. have you ever asked him to take his clothing off in complete darkness? possibly this could be a commencing component. Six months is somewhat no longer that long of a time to be sexually lively. He could desire to be very shy. He needs encouragement, and to understand which you will enable him progression in his very own time. possibly he'd assist you to only elevate his shirt purely a touch in the commencing up (without taking it thoroughly off), etc. it seems which you have a sturdy dating because you have already been jointly for 4 years, so wait and notice and form and attempt to no longer act annoyed even once you're. in case you recommend he has a "concern", he could retreat extra beneficial.
2016-11-02 06:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by saying exactly what you just said.. i love you you are beautiful and everything I've ever wanted or needed, be open and honest . pour your heart out and hopefully she'll do the same : ) It will probably lead to the creation of another baby so wrap it up !! No but seriously just tell her how you feel and don't be phony, tell her she's beautiful and that no amount of children or time or anything could ever take away form that : )
-Tayy
2006-07-17 16:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old the kids are, but I'm guessing they are young. She is probrably just exhausted. Arrange for a babysitter and I'm sure she'll jump at the chance to go out if she doesn't have to do all the preparation .
2006-07-17 16:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to reinfroce things with her i would thing after having three kids and still not being married getting that way real fast may help things, I mean good lord how long of a engagement are you planning to have, I know you are waiting untill the kids can give their mom away, get with it already.
2006-07-17 16:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a question for your question - HOW STOOPID ARE YOU? YOU HAVE 3 KIDS TOGETHER AND SHE IS STILL YOUR FIANCE???????????? I'd take those kids and run from you as fast as a bat in a belfry. Talk about a problem with 'working'! SHEESH.
2006-07-17 16:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind her everyday howmuch she means to you and how beautiful she is try surprizing her with a romantic night away from your kids maybe even a weekend getaway if u can arrange childcare
2006-07-17 16:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by eyes_kitty_green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to think of some romantic dating ideas.
2006-07-17 16:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's depressed. I would encourage her to see help....
2006-07-17 16:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by Annie's World 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋