I am waiting. Amazingly there are a lot of people who wait. People dont realize how big of a deal sex is. Virginity is a special gift that I am saving for the right man, and if it is the right man we will be married. So yes it is possible to wait and I think it would be a really good idea to wait from now on. If he really loves you, he will wait until your married. I belive you can become a virgin again. Pray to God about it. Just tell Him the truth and how you feel. Ask Him to make you pure again. And tell Him you will wait for the husband He has set out for you. I was once told that virginity is the best gift. Maybe you made a mistake and opened that gift too early. If you see you have made a mistake and have decided to save your gift for your husband then you can wrap it up again. At first it may not seem as pretty to you but after a while you will realize it is just as beautiful. You have decided not to keep ripping it open but to save it. Then your husband will see this beautiful gift you have saved for him. I hope everything works out and that you find that special man. God bless
2006-07-17 16:02:35
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answered by A* 4
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wow...that takes a lot of guts doing that. I wouldnt reccomend doing that because what if he's small and really bad? Then you are stuck with him for life and you know there is nothing you can do except maybe teach him a few things that you learned previously or watched on tv. There's nothing you can do about the size. I think thats great if people want to wait and do that whole thing but look at nick and jessica...she was a virgin til she got married then she got curious and strayed and now divorced.
2006-07-17 23:03:55
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answered by evie_cooper 4
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The bogus belief that one is better off to try it first, to make sure there are no problems is the basis for shacking up before marriage. However, a few years ago, a study funded by an evangelical assocation discovered that shacking up before marriage actually DOUBLED the divorce rate. Another wonderful theory failed to meet the reality test.
The lack of true commitment to marriage, when a couple doesn't wait, causes far more problems than surprise sexual problems missed by not trying it first. There aren't that many people who are simply no good at all with sex.
2006-07-17 23:33:20
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answered by retiredslashescaped1 5
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I didn't wait. But you can become a second time virgin by not doing it againg until you are married. I think that's realistic to meet a guy and wait until ya'll are married. Yeah, I can understand that it can be nice.
2006-07-18 00:17:25
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answered by princess4n2deep 4
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Yes people still wait. Not many but they are out there. I think it's a great idea if you can do it. It's special. I on the other hand ......Couldn't. Me and hubby dated for so long and knew each other forever. I gave in. lol
GO for it. I think it's wonderful.
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2006-07-17 23:06:11
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answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7
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I'm gonna wait. But seriously, that's overrated anyhow. You made the right choice, son.
As long as you help society, who cares what you do?
2006-07-17 23:02:50
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answered by SADFHorde 5
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I am definitly waiting until I'm married
2006-07-17 23:03:19
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answered by hockeyhunny2 2
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I did
2006-07-17 23:04:00
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answered by Izzy 5
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yes its nice I wish I would of but didn't
2006-07-17 23:02:42
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answered by shrnstum 4
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I am planning on it
2006-07-18 01:08:31
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answered by janelle b 2
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