How can we tell if she is pregnant, if she doesn't have regular period cycles?

Question

I have been having some irresponsible, unprotected sex with my gf, but not fully ejaculating inside her, pulling out and then going back in. I have been careful not to fully ejaculate inside her, but also have now learned that this may still result in pregnancy.
We are young and not ready for any children, and will most certainly be much more careful from now on.
I posted an earlier question on this subject, and now I am concerned that I won't be sure whether she misses her period or not , because she does not have a vaery regular cycle. Sometimes she will miss her period for a couple months at a time, even when there is no chance of pregnancy, and does not have a 28-day cycle.
What are other ways of detecting an early pregnancy, other than EPT tests, or watching for missed periods? Also, do any women out there have irregular periods? What causes it and how do you predict whether or not you will be ovulating?

Answer 1

You seriously pull out ejaculate and that go back in? How do you stay erect? In answer to your question just get the EPT and if she goes on the pill she will become regular and you can remain inside.

Answer 2

Other than home pregnancy tests, your gf's breats may start to feel heavy and sore, her sense of smell may intensify, she may start to feel a bit sick to her stomach, she may also feel more sleepy than usual and she may also feel a slight pulling sensation on either side of her uterus. i felt all of the above when i was first pregnant, even before i took a test. But then again, ever woman and every pregnancy is different. As for the irregular periods, lots of things can cause that, being overweight, being underweight, being under alot of stress, not eating right, not getting enough sleep, or irregular periods may also just be "normal" for her. When it comes to ovulation, some women feel a slight cramp and their cervical mucus becomes more abundant (think egg whites). Also, when ovulating, a woman's temperature slightly rises and her cheeks may flush. Tell your gf ( if u find out she's not pg, that getting on birth control will help regulate her periods and will definitely help with the not wanting to get pg). Good luck with whatever happens with this situation.

Answer 3

As for whether or not your gf is pregnant, only a test can tell for sure. However, there are ways to tell when she is ovulating. One good way is to check the cervical mucous. When a woman ovulates, there is more of it, and it is very much like egg whites in look and consistency. Another good indicator is her basal temperature. If you two aren't considering using any form of birth control (and the pull-out method sure isn't birth control) you might want to learn about fertility charting. A great resource is a book called Taking Control of Your Fertility.

Answer 4

the only safe way to prevent pregnancy is to abstain from sex, even before ejaculation you can release sperm. and the only true way is to have a pregnancy test, or an ovulation predictor test, also there is no True physical observation that you can make, best thing is to convince your gf to go with you to planned parenthood and have the test done, and then get hooked up with some birth control if you want to continue to have sex.

Answer 5

First, you need to use some kind of REAL birth control. Second the only definitive way to determine if someone is pregnant is to have a test. Go to your doctor and have a blood test done, try planned parent hood if you don't want to go to your own doctor. Good luck.

Answer 6

only things i can suggest is pregnancy tests or going to the doctor...

and then, you may want to talk with her about going on some sort of birth control, especially if you guys are having unprotected sex

Answer 7

hey wassup? how old are u? first of all all of this that u are saying about pulling it out and then going back in i did all of that and still got pregnant and i didnt know i was 16 weeks and 2 days so there is a posibility that she might be pregnant. irregular periods is when you are having sex and your period dosent come on that month and you might be pregnant so watch out for missed periods and please talk with her.

Answer 8

Other than those options really the only thing you can do is to look for the early warning signs, sore or enlarged breasts, nausea and vomitting (usually brought on by strong smells), and frequent urinating. She should really get put on birth control. It will probably help her periods to be more normal and wil reduce the chance of getting pregnant (duh).

Answer 9

hey. i'm a female and also am worried because i've been havin unprotected too. but tell her to go to the doctor or just go and take a test from the store. was that helpful?

Answer 10

Hello! Invest in some cheap pregnancy tests...