Is it wrong to accept gifts from someone who likes you? Although you have absolutley NO interest in her...and she absolutley knows this...she knows all there is, is friendship but yet she still wants to be nice...what would you do in that situation? I mean if your friends and someone wants to help out.......
2006-07-17 15:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by Joelyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
um presents are presents and if she knows you dont even like her that much whats the big deal. id love it if i had a random freak who likes me enough that they give me gifts after they find out i dont even like them that much... its called girl worships you enjoy it, your a celebrity....
but if you do feel guilty tell her you dont feel comfortable accepting gifts from her, or try to make friend with her to thank her for her kindness.
2006-07-17 15:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by girly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong, people don't accept gifts from people we don't like, or maybe you just feel interest on what she give you, let her now in a good way that you don't want more gifts, or ask her why she is doing it, maybe she like u, and if she do, and you take the gift she may think you like her to cause you accept it
2006-07-17 22:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by sama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong, poor girl is trying to buy friendship. U need to tell her that she doesn't need to do this and it's wrong for u to take the gifts.
Tell her why and then give back the gifts she already gave u
2006-07-17 22:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her giving gifts to you, may be her way of pushing you... into a deeper friendship than you may be desiring to have with her.
If you accept the gifts, it could lead her to think that you want to have a deeper friendship with her.
If you don't want to be close friends with her, you shouldn't accept the gifts... it could cause her to be mislead.
2006-07-17 22:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing free in this world...if you have no intention of being friend with someone you should not accept the gift. because its gonna come back and bite you in the a$$
2006-07-17 22:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not accept her gift but if she insists then u can take it, but reinerrate that you have no interest.
2006-07-17 22:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by lu-lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a gift is just that... a gift... if her giving you things makes you uncomfortable, or makes you feel obligated then tell her you cant accept them, though you do appreciate that she thinks of you...
otherwise... enjoy... it is a gift after all...
2006-07-17 22:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Resasour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you know that the girl wants to more then friends and is trying to buy you. If you do know this information then you know that you are dead WRONG!!
2006-07-17 22:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by s. life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will depend on you what do you feel about her you are not interested but if you will think about her than please think about that. you realy want to ignore her or not & then deside it can only one who do this that you my dear
If want a friend than ask me or first tell your email id.
2006-07-18 03:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she insists then sure why not. nothing wrong iwth that.
2006-07-17 22:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by roses81care 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋