2006-07-17 15:28:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he left me for 2 other women one is the mother of his child, the other he proposed to when we were still married now he has this epihany from above after all this i feel i cannot trust him my only sin was i fell in love with him to deep
2006-07-17 15:41:44 · update #1
He realized how good he had it, but he had his chance while you were married. I guess it depends on why you guys divorced in the first place. If you had a good reason, don't take him back. He made a mistake and he has to live with it. Divorce is a big step, and if you had enough motive to go and get one, then I think it needs to stay that way. Good luck and I hope things work out for the best.
2006-07-17 15:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Do YOU love him?
think about why you got the divorce in the place, and then think about what you would be opening if you take him back.. and if there are children think about them first.
sounds like you don't want him back, but then there is counseling and only if YOU want it's no longer about what he wants, you're single now so look deeply with in yourself and trust me the answer is there, pay attention to it.
2006-07-17 15:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would depend entirely upon many things..why did you get divorced in the first place...has anything really changed?
Do you love him? Does he really love you or did he just "crash and burn" and wants "old dependable" back?
Take it slow..try dates first...if you're really interested. I also STONGLY recommend marriage counseling (for both of you) if you're even remotely considering it...unless you just love schilling out money to divorce attorneys.
2006-07-17 15:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt if it didnt work the first time what makes you think itll work out the second time and if it took till you got married to relieze you and him weren't right for each other than thats sad but more than likely ya'll arent meant for each other..and everything happens for a reason which means ya'll being over may open a new relationship thats meant to be..
2006-07-17 15:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shpould loose all contact with him and move on,change your numbers you got a divorce for a reason divorce is not a small thing,it happens for a reason,let him go and dont let him get to you if in a year or so your paths cross then maby pursue things but not after one month he is only pursuing you because he is lonely
2006-07-17 15:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
heck no...not after forking over all that money to get divorced. If you two are meant to be together then at least get out there and date around...test the waters. He probably wants to come back because he's lonely at night and you were/are his comfort zone.
2006-07-17 15:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you go backward? If you couldn't resolve your differences prior to divorcing, what makes you think you could now? He probably wants to have sex with you. Gross.
2006-07-17 15:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Incongruous 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably wants you back because he cant get any other girl, or he finally realized his feelings for you.
2006-07-17 15:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by monkey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two probabilities:
(1)Dont have finances support.
(2)His "mistress" has kick him off the boat
**I agree wif evie_cooper:
you were/are his comfort zone
2006-07-17 15:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by CL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no, tell him its over, you need a fresh start,if it didnt work before, what has changed in a month that it would work this time?
2006-07-17 15:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋