she dumped me because of communication problems
2006-07-17 15:10:55 · 23 answers · asked by slimballa_16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
send her some roses and candy to her job and write just becasue it tuesday or what ever day of the week it is and then call her and tell her your sorry for not communicating and your going to trying to communicate more and you love her
2006-07-17 15:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by beebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is important. If you can't talk things out, or if you're not doing much talking at all, then there's a problem. The fact that she dumped you over it is kind of messed up. She should have at least talked to you about it and tried to fix things. If she's already done that and broke up with you, then it's probably better that you move on. She wasn't satisfied and you can't convice her to be with you. It's painful to know that someone isn't happy anymore, but you will find someone so much greater. Good luck!
2006-07-17 15:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll only come back if she wants to. But you need to turn over a new leaf. Let it all out. Talk. Be more communicative. Share your feelings. Start by sitting down and writing a letter. Write down all the feelings of why you want her back. And keep doing that. If she asks you something, stop saying"I don't know." or being silent. Answer her and communicate!
2006-07-17 15:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter- express yourself- depending on your age, let her know you're willing to 'speak to someone' with her (councelling) if it's really that much of a problem. But hey, if you can't communicate with each other- then maybe it's not meant to be anyway??
2006-07-17 15:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Peach Tree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you're willing to work on your communication problems and MEAN IT! If she wants to talk~talk. If she's telling you her problems, don't try to solve them...just listen. Part of having good communication is listening...
2006-07-17 15:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by qtpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to learn how to communicate. Talk to her about your problems and explain to her how much you care if you really do.. If she really loves you she will understand and she will take you back
2006-07-17 15:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Reychal E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her you are trying to be a better communicator. Be her friend. Friends listen and talk well with each other.
2006-07-17 15:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by tutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her a box of choclates and a single red rose, tell her you screwed up and you still care about her. tell her that you are there to listen to anything she has to say, and tell her that you will talk back with her to make a good conversation. then live up to your words and treat her like she is the only person in the world. then take her out to dinner, your treat.
good luck!
2006-07-17 15:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by misssmurder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. Just try and learn and move on. Even if you change, she will still think of you as the person you were before, and little good can come from it.
Plenty more out there.
2006-07-17 15:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you both ready to start communicating? If so, call her. Ask her how she is doing. And take it from there.
2006-07-17 15:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋