2006-07-17 15:01:00 · 15 answers · asked by ¨¨starlight¨¨¨ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to look for signs with him;
1. Seems distant and unengaged
2. Works late
3. Loses interest in s*x with you
4. Snaps at you, is somewhat disrespectful, easily aggitated
5. Gets upset when your plans change (because that affects his plans with someone else)
6. Suddenly changes his appearance, i.e. starts working out, wearing "hip" clothes, etc.
You can try to connect the dots by;
1. Checking the cell phone records.
2. Checking your computer "history" to see what sites he's visited.
3. Check pockets in his dry cleaning or dirty clothes.
4. If he has a regular routine, you can follow him. Check to see if he is where he says he is, OR pay a private detective to follow him.
5. Prepare yourself. If your gut is telling you something, then there is a HIGH probability that it is true, so you need to have a response plan, i.e. leave or stay, work it out, not work it out, etc.
2006-07-17 15:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by julesl68 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has a sudden changes in grooming himself and buying perfumes. He will also buy something for you (if he is really guilty) just to cover up his flirtatious. In the meantime, when he came home feeling exhausted & tired and he doesn't feel want to have intercourse with you (perhaps he is really tired over long hours of workloads). However, no matter how tired he is, tomorrow morning will definately a fresh day and he will certainly lovemaking with you. But if he deliberately didn't do with you, it shows that he has fill his needs at outside.
If a sudden calls on his mobile at night and he deliberately went to washroom while answering the call, this is also an obvious hint. I suggest when he went to shower or even when he is sound asleep, glance through all incoming & outgoing calls & sms and checklist on the address books (however, your act must be alert and fast so that he did not caught you for that as he will 100% piss off and will pick a fight with you).
Or else, you may engage a private investigator if you can't find any clues at all.
2006-07-17 22:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ask the question if you are not prepared for the answer.
First ask yourself WHY you want to know. If it's because you feel it's wrong, then that's the right reason, but if it's to give you an excuse to do the same or get a divorce then that's for the wrong reasons.
It's fairly easy to find out if a man is cheating, they usually make a lot of mistakes because they think you don't have a clue - follow your instincts, they are more true to you than anything.
2006-07-17 22:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey u r a woman first of all and we have a six sense about things use urs follow that gut instinct and pay close attention to what is said and how its said sure u can ck phone records online chats but hey just use what God gave u and go from there ...Ive been there....done it...and when the sex is not the same no more passion then ur not da only one getting it .....
2006-07-17 22:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Unperdictable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalk him! Pay attention to everything. Check his phone for "odd" numbers. Check his text messages and those numbers too. When I say pay attention to everything I mean how often he showers, how often you are getting sex, his work schedule. Is he working more hours,going in early. If he deletes his numbers and what not look at the phone bill. You can get it online and in the mail. You may just want to ask him and see what his reaction is to that question. Check his emails too. Make sure to check the deleted file. A lot of men forget to delete their deleted! If he has messenger turn on his messanger archive in the preferences that way you can read everything he's talking about to his buddys and whoever.
2006-07-17 22:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women have a gift, it's called intuition. Use it. If you think he's cheating on you and it bothered you enough to get on yahoo answers to ask, then yes.
It is true though about the cell phone thing. If he won't answer it in front of you or he keeps leaving the room---well there you go.
2006-07-17 23:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by lisamadd1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into his eyes when talking to him. If he doesn't feel threatened then put your feelings into words without making any statements; something like: "I feel as if something is going wrong here..." Emphasis on the "me" and not on "you".
2006-07-17 22:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him. Watch him. Like is he coming home late? Does he smell womany?
2006-07-17 22:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a ******* every night, and closely monitor the amount of ejaculation.
2006-07-17 22:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by ernie3232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out his weekly schedule, in list you friends and put him under surveillance for a week.
2006-07-17 22:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Farrah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋