I'm one of those people that tends to be a follower. Even last night, I was on this site, and I saw a few people that were asking questions about pregnancy. Their questions were like "Can I get pregnant this way...or that way", questions like that. So I asked a question similiar to a few questions that were being asked. I already knew the answer to the question, but I just asked it because I tend to be a follower and it was late (in the morning) when I asked. The few questions that were similiar to mine didn't really get any scarastic remarks but my question did. I'm just wondering on how I might be able to change it and became more of a leader because I've always been this way. I just want to see if anybody can come up with any great ideas. Sorry if this might sound stupid to anyone. I would hope that whenever someone asks a question on this site, that people could not jump right in and assume that they must be stupid or really young. People ask questions for a helpful opinion.
2006-07-17 14:52:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
People tend to look at your status as a member. If you're new they like to point out any mistakes you make. There's nothing you can really do about except remember not to do it when you're an established member.
2006-07-17 15:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by ihatestupidclowns 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to speak up for yourself and be confident in what you believe in! Don't be intimidated by people....they are no better than anyone else! Don't think anyone is any better than you. Try something new sometimes. Be the one to make a decision for a change...do not let someone else make it for you. I have always been told that I am a natural leader, but I was very bashful when I was younger. I have learned to be outspoken no matter what anyone else thinks. Keep in mind that you always want to think before you speak though...once it is out...it is out!! Remember that you can only please some of the people some of the time and not all of the people all of the time. You will always have that smart remark...that usually comes from someone who can't come up with anything intelligent! Just ignore...it will happen...just shows their IQ.
Good luck...it won't happen over night...take little steps at a time...it will make you feel good about yourself!
2006-07-17 15:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by blueyedboyz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you only realized just how simple the answer is.
A true leader is the one who admits they do not know everything and asks questions from the people who know.
That person then uses that information to create an opinion and then acts.
Those that cannot answer you question in a genuin manner is a genuin follower. Thay answer abrasively simple because they do not want to admit they are not sure of themselves.
You questions alone show potential for leadership.
Keep up the good work.
2006-07-17 15:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by iggwad ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its actually a great question and my answer is very simple , study the leaders that you admire. Read books on the subject, take study courses. Its a good journey to start right now. On the net you can find anything you want. Please be patient with yourself and do your research. Everything takes time.Start at you local library if you like real books to read. You will be surprised at your hidden talents. Please don't let the negative people of the world influence you, they want you to fail as they do.You can do this.
2006-07-17 15:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by nocateman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 06:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be a folower. the kid that just went with the flow all the time and never asked questions. and people walked all over me. then i let my rage take control and after it subsided i was made anew. i just said no to anything that displeased me. and now i wear wat i want say wat i want and think the way i want and i gotta tell u honey, there is no other way to live. i get a head rush just thinking about all the controll i have over myself. dont be a folower. it is not good for anyone.
2006-07-17 15:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuummmm......maybe don't always do what other people say
i'm saying if you do
2006-07-17 14:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋