She is married to a difficult man We believe that divorce is reserved for adultry I delieve that the only other exception is abuse. She knows that her hubby brings deamons into the house and these monsters torment thier toddler but my sister doesn't want shared custody with him she says right now she is there to make sure the baby is ok. the kid will beg the hubby to play he just turns up the tv she wants the marriage to end for a lot more than i can put here but she doesn't want to share custody what should she do? I got lucky my former moved to another state but her's won't do that
2006-07-17 14:08:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is really bad.. i wander if there is any way of getting proof of his actions and lifestyle that a judge would see him unfit to be around the child.. i do not know how to answer this... i agree with her though i would not want him any where near my child.. but has she seen a lawyer?? i do not even know how she can be living around him... i wish i could help but i do not even know how to begin to tell her how to get out of this situation....i am hoping the best for you all and if you pray , lets pray...
2006-07-17 14:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce does not always mean shared custody - if it is seriously a bad situation she can prove this is court and get sole custody of the child.
The question your sister needs to ask herself with this BULL about staying together for the kids excuse that so many people use, is this - is she going to wait until one of these monsters molests the child, scars the child for life, or injures the child to such an extreme that she will be handicapped forever before she decides to TRUELy protect their child from mistreatment?
2006-07-17 14:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was difficult, too. With my religious upbringing I felt that I was to honor my husband and take what he dished out and remembered what was told to me the first time he hit me. You made your bed, now lie in it. Two children later and after I almost lost my life in childbirth, the beatings continued. Finally, I told him I wanted a divorce. I was in fear for my life as well as the kids. My family (not fully realizing the extent of everything) passed judgement on me. They made my life unbearable. Not only did I have the fear from him, but I had the stress from my family. I also didn't want to share custody, but didn't have any choice. Fortunately, the Lord intervened and took care of the problem. And yes the kids did lose.
2006-07-17 15:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by popcopgoldieoldie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got lucky and your daughter lost.
Keep out of your sister's life, she picked the man so there must be something she likes about him. Maybe she needs to get a hobby so she is not talking about her personal issues with you and for sure she needs to be talking to her husband if there is a real issue. Oh and by the way, the kids are 50% the mom AND 50% the dad so why do mom's think the kid is all theirs?
2006-07-17 14:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Demons...what the crap? You truly believe in that stuff? Maybe she should stay away from you and keep the hubby!
2006-07-17 14:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the abuse she can just get sole custody
2006-07-17 15:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by mylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋