they couldnt hear a heart beat and sent me 4 a ultrasound and they didnt see anything on the screen and i knew i was pregnant but they found no fetus, just the sac i was suppose to be 9 weeks or more! :,( im so sad and they gota do a d&c thursday or friday!
2006-07-17 13:59:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
every where i look theres a pregnant woman or a woman with a new born and it bothers me i start to cry everytime i wanted to be a mom so bad! everything happens 4 a reason! :(
2006-07-17 14:01:44 · update #1
I went in at 12 weeks and no heartbeat. The baby had stopped growing several weeks before, but my body hadn't reacted. I had to have a D&C as well. I had seen the heartbeat at about eight weeks. I was excited and looking forward to being a mommy as well. We had difficulty getting pregnant and were so excited when it finally happened. It was very difficult for me as well afterward. Seeing other women who were pregnant or with infants made me mourn my loss even more. I can't tell you anything to make you feel better except to lean on your friends and family to support you. For me, that and time has made things bearable. Nothing will take away that memory or loss, but hopefully we will be pregnant again soon and have a wonderful and healthy babies!
2006-07-17 17:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Snow White 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss. Take comfort in the fact that your chance to be a mother has not passed you by. Having a false pregnancy does not decrease your chances of having a viable pregnancy in the future. A friend of mine had the same thing happen to her twice and now has a healthy, amazing baby boy! Give yourself some time to mourn and then let God work out the timing for another child. Good luck!
2006-07-17 21:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by cathcoug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very sad news. There is not much that I can say to minimize the pain you might be feeling right now, the only thing I can say is leave it in God's hands, ask for strengh and have faith in him. God bless!
2006-07-17 21:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost a litttle boy baby at15 weeks. It is very sad, but you can get through this dear.
2006-07-17 21:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by chieko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋