I mean, they don't know that the feeling is there. They will just realize about it when the girl was gone. They realized they are in love when years passed, and I literally mean years... Guys only...
2006-07-17 13:30:58 · 35 answers · asked by eara1987 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no..not all guys...i think men r sometimes more cautious w their feelings and we females are more impulsive creatures...and sometime we take their caution for lack of feeling..when the hesitation is only their way of staying guarded until they r sure..
2006-07-17 13:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Some are that way for sure. I tend to fall like a rock... a big rock. My brother is the opposite. It takes him a while to decide if that is what he feels. Some guys dont notice it until years later.
I am guessing you are hoping that someone from your past will wake up and realize. My advice is hope is great, but don't waste your todays waiting for the day he wakes up, because you don't know when or even if it will happen. Us guys can be pretty dense sometimes.
2006-07-17 13:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by klygen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not Always True! I'm a guy and I have fallen in love way to quickly before. It usually doesn't end well. But I knew the girl I had my best relationship with for two years before asking her out. Of course she would not have said yes if I had not already treated her well and been a friend for two years.
But don't waste your life waiting around for somebody and don't let some guy sweet-talk you now just because he feels lonely years later.
2006-07-17 13:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by G-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think for men sometimes they are unsure of what they realy want in a woman so it takes them time, they realy want to make sure of something before they start making any commitments or saying those three words. it used to be way back then that the women were the ones that took it slow and the men new what they wanted when they saw her. now it is like the role is reversed, well not totaly, but now its like the women are the ones that rush it way more than they used to, and the men are the ones that are a little more laid back and realy waiting to make sure they dont make that mistake, and we get agrivated...lol...its just my opinion.
2006-07-17 13:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Some guys are very quick to fall in love - too quick in some cases. Others are very slow and don't often realise until it is too late.
2006-07-17 13:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy, some guys, like me, as soon as they feel something they tell the girl even if they know it won't work... other guys prefer keeping to themselves waiting for something better but in the end they end up alone. There's nothing granted in life and people who wait for something better are those who end up up learning nothing from life....
2006-07-17 13:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's actually true they are slow to falling in love, it's just that they fall into lust first. And for a guy, it's harder for them to get out of that lust stage, and onto the love stage where for women, it all basically goes hand in hand.
2006-07-17 13:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by celeste_moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET ME BREAK IT DOWN FOR YOU. Men are turned on by what they SEE, women are turned on by what they FEEL. Therefore, men tend to fall in love very easily. The only problem is; we easily fall out of love too.
2006-07-17 13:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Javon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's right at all. At least, I know it's not for me. It's probably different for everyone. I fell in love with my exgirlfriend within 5 months, and knew it, and told her a lot, and I think I eventually scared her off. So no, I don't think it's true.
2006-07-17 13:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not true l know as soon as l meet someone l Love that l am in Love. lt just takes along time to meet someone l Love.
2006-07-17 14:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am definitely not like that, I think all guys are different, but I wouldn't think what you are describing is a common occurence, I would think though, that it is easier to generalize by saying it is difficult for guys to express their feelings, but that doesnt mean they don't have them, or that all guys are like that either.
2006-07-17 13:34:43 · answer #11 · answered by rykkardo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋