You people are scaring the crap out of me. How do I tell my gf that I don't feel ready for a pregnancy??....everyone here probably hates me. Oh my GOD
2006-07-17 13:22:56 · 8 answers · asked by Robert J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You SHOULD be scared of unprotected sex. It's like having sex with everyone your partner has had, and everyone those partners had, and everyone... etc. - a whole web of people perhaps.
If she is already pregnant... be a man and deal with it. It's too late to undo it. You should have thought about that earlier.
If she's not, just tell her - you aren't ready to have kids because you want (fill in the blank) first. If she can't deal with it, she isn't the right person for you to be with anyhow because nobody should push anybody into parenthood. That is a HUGE responsibility.
2006-07-17 13:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by curiouschick18 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're having sex (even with a condom, BC pills, etc) you have to be willing to face the possible consequences. SHOULD she be pregnant, even if you aren't ready for a baby, you will be financially responsible to help raise the baby even if you don't want to be in the child's life (provided that she does decide to have the baby). Now if she decides to have an abortion, you need to help her through that (financially, emotionally, etc). No matter what, it's her body and her choice. But above all, remember, she's probably just as freaked out as you are, if not more.
Now, if you've managed to dodge the bullet on this one - you have a choice. Tell her: A) You will only have protected sex (with a condom is always recommended until you're married) or B) You don't want to have sex at all because you're not ready for the possibility of a pregnancy.
2006-07-17 20:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tygirljojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay relax u gotta stay away from unpertected sex if she is pregnant be a man and not ditch if she is it isent that bad
its not like bam she a cow or anything and no your not gonna be in one place in your life
ull have friend still and everything shur in the future ull be busy
cuz babies are fun
and hard work
tell your girlfriend your not ready for a pregnancy and why thats all
2006-07-17 20:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit having unprotected sex. And talk to her. If you haven't even discussed birth control, you aren't ready for sex, much less children!
2006-07-17 20:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first-no one hates you for being honest about your feelings.it is far worse to bring an unwanted baby into the world.if your girlfriend does not understand that,then she is in the wrong thinking mind.oh/ a baby should be done with WIFE ,when you are ready,
2006-07-17 20:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by granny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest way to do that is just straight up tell her. Don't beat around the bush or try to sugar coat it just be honest. that's the most important thing in any relationship. that and trust.
2006-07-17 20:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by mack9930317 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you can't unf*** some one you'll have to go with what shee decides to do. be the man and support her decision i'ts not easy i know i was in your shoe once apon a time
2006-07-17 20:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Tranquillado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U NEED TO JUST TELL HER. JUST BUST OUT AND TELL HER, EVEN IF YOU FEEL SCARED. A BABY IS NO LITTLE SIMPLE THING. TELL HER, NOBODY HATES U.
2006-07-17 20:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋