My mom and younger sister have given me a very hard time about my butt. They say things like oh you have a big butt and they laugh. On the other hand i have had my Dad say that is not true and i have had friends say i have a great looking butt. And guys seem to like it too. So is my mom and sister just jealous? Seriously i do not have a big butt...i'm really confused about why they would say all that. What do you think?
PS Both my younger sister and mom have always seemed kinda jealous of me because i ended up with the great figure and they don't have one.
2006-07-17 12:31:56 · 24 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there jealuos, act like it dont bother you an they will stop just say back dont wish you butt look like mine you no the pussy cat song laugh at them at them DO YOU WANT SOME OF THIS an smile, you no the pussycat song,
2006-07-17 12:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be jealousy subconsciencely. However, from expierence, because my sister has a J.Lo butt, so times a tease is just a tease. Just shrug it off, and take it as it comes. The best way to make it stop or at least fun, is take an attribute from them, and make fun of it. Don't be harsh about it though just have a little chuckle every now and again.
2006-07-17 19:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so...they are all love you...depend on what side you are on...if next time you hear they say that...then tell them yeah! you are right, I have big butt...I wish to have small butts sa you are...laugh off and walk away....if you make a big deal out of it then they keep talking about your butt forever...act like it doesn't bother you whatever they said...who cares... got it?
2006-07-17 19:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Duke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u act like there's something wrong with having a big butt!! i wouldn't jump to any conclusions of jealousy though. maybe they just say that to get you going. besides it got u so worked up this time you posted this question on-line. don't worry about it. if u like ur butt then that's all that matters. i personally i'm proud of the junk in my trunk!!!!
2006-07-17 19:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably just doing it to make you mad. Ppl say I have a big butt too although I don't think so. Don't let it bother you. Find something to tease them about and maybe they will stop.
2006-07-17 19:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have already the answer. Jealous. They found a thing that touch you. They know you feel ashamed or angry when they speak and mention your butt. You must leave the words go away...
2006-07-17 19:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by vahucel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mail me a pic and I'll tell ya...just kidding. Guys do love that and anytime girls are saying that another girls boobs are too big or her butt is too big just respond with, "Well I'm not concerned about impressing girls, I'm just glad to impress men. And my assets seem to do the trick."
2006-07-17 19:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by hypothetical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of a relationship do you have with your mom and sister, that they should be jealous of you. they should love you and be happy that you were blessed with such a figure.
think nothing of it. it will not make a difference in your life what they say. you will still have your figure no matter what anybody says. they are all just wasted words..
2006-07-17 19:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need to see a picture of said "butt" in order to give advice.
2006-07-17 20:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are tag teaming you, two against one...lol...it happens my mother and my brother and i took turns doing that, but we also tried to make sure we did not cross the line and hurt on another, the whole point is to just laugh about it. but in your case if they say things that realy bother you then it is your responsibility to make sure you tell them so that they have a chance to stop. dont just keep letting them do something that hurts you, if you tell them and they can see your seriouse then they will more than likey stop. and if they dont then go to your dad aparently he is on your side, tell him how you feel and tell him that you told them and they wont stop and if he could talk to them for you to see if he can get them to stop. its ok to make fun if everyone is laughing about it including you, but once it crosses the line and its not funny anymore you need to tell them. good luck, its not easy but you can do it!
2006-07-17 19:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋