i am living in a friend camper untill i get a an apt
and her 1o year son runs his mouth all the time on me. like hes my boss and he blam me 4 stealing things but he dose it to get me yelled. at theres to much to list.
i have talk to my friends they try to make him stop but he wont. somethime i think that can do more but i cant tell them how to rase there children b/c i dont thinlk its my place too.
it gets very anoring when i cant make move with him ? it i dont what to i cant find place that i can rite now i did. i dont wont to lose them as friend
is there anything i can try to get him to stop i tryed ignoring him,telling him to stop asking him to stop
reward letting him play videos games when he dont and when he dose i dont let him play all the thing dont work i no iam sound like i a m wining but this is very to go though all the time
2006-07-17 12:28:55 · 6 answers · asked by bigeagle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i ment a 10 year child my bad
2006-07-17 13:10:51 · update #1
I suggest you concentrate your efforts on getting into your own place to live. No matter what you do, don't reward this kid for his bad behavior. It isn't going to make him get better.
He probably treats his parents bad too, and if they don't do something he is destined to end up in jail. The problem is, you aren't in a position to say or do anything. Whatever you do to make him stop will be resented and end your friendship with his parents.
Find a way to move out.
2006-07-17 12:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kids are very hard to work with especially at that age, They think they know every thing. I think that you need to sit down with your buddy and tell him. I really appreciate it that you are letting me stay in your camper and all. I am having a great time here. Make it sound as though you are having the time of your life.. But then add the big BUT..... And let him know what his kid is doing. Let him know that he makes you feel uncomfortable. I am sure the adult is more likely to listen to you rather then the child that is what they do. They lie. I know first hand. I mean I babysit all the time and that is just what they do. IF he doesn't believe you and gets mad at you then obviously that person isn't really your friend.
2006-07-17 19:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Danica83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
from the sounds of it...from what I can understand..It sounds like the kid is uncomfortable that you are living there..it must be hard on him, a lot of changes, etc.
What I would do...is I would treat him like a little brother. Bring him places with you...express your concerns with him while you are alone. If you have anything that you don't want him to touch, I would either put it in storage or lock it somewhere....put it out of his sight...
I would also spend the least amount of time there, get a job and get your own place. Are you contributing to the rent, utilities, etc. IF not you really don't have a say.....
2006-07-17 19:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by sleddinginthesnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are living under someone elses roof..you are not in the position to discipline a one year old child...only the parents can.....what you can do is not to participate in the child charade....repeat your message and be consistent....but i doubt the parents will let you get away with that....
2006-07-17 19:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ, you moron. Let's place ourselves in situations that we can whine about! Then, we can complain, illiterately, about our situations!! How ******* fun!! I'm a moron, you're a moron! Blaah, blaah, blaah. I'm ******* stuupid, you're ******* stuupid! Wheeeeeee! How ******* FUN! You fuc_ my cun_, I fuc_ you_ cu_t! Fu_k, fuc_, fu_k cun_, we all love to fu_k cu_t!
2006-07-17 19:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? why are you letting a 1yr old boss u around? ...
2006-07-17 19:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by LaBeLlAvItA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋