My bf doesn't call me anymore n he claims he was so tired after work. Is he lying to me?

Answer 1

Absolutely, I am sorry to say! If you love someone you will make every effort to be with them or call them even if it is on a break at work...even just to say I love you. I wish I could tell you something different, but I would be lying. You do not want to waste anymore time on this guy, because life is short and you do not deserve to be treated this way. I just came out of a 30 year marriage with a man who I love very much, but enough is enough. I have to have more respect for myself. Hang in there sweetie because you deserve better!

Answer 2

I am assuming you two know each other (in the biblical sense).

If it's been a day or two then no, he's probably just tired, give him a break. If it's been 2 weeks, he's found someone else and doesn't have the guts to tell you. No unmarried guy is that tired for more than a few days in a row.

Answer 3

yes, hes making all the excuses up.. just so you dont yell at him or anything and that you will feel sorry and Fall beneath him. and let it go. girl you need to find a man that will make time for you.. and not make excuses to be with you. and he should have at least called you. .thats really pathedic. because why be in a relashionship.. where the man nevers calls you.. its like its all in your head.. and he is just playing mind games with you. .he wont break up with you because he will want to use you.. so he does this to get a break and still get what he wants. sorry you have a boyfriend like that. Find someone that will treat you right. and let you know you arent nothing. He knew how it would be about work. he should have never got involved.

Answer 4

Well if this has been an ongoing even then he is probably lying. That generally means someone is distancing themselfs from you for one reason or another.
If he has done it a couple days who knows, he could be sick or just tired, you can't determine something like that in 3 days.

Answer 5

Chances are your guy needs some "space" It could be that he truly is tired. . . but he also my want to do some "guy" stuff w/o any girls around. . . worst case senario, well you know..... Try not to jump to conclusions and get the facts. If he's "so tired" after work, offer to come over and cook him supper or give him a massage. . try something to see if he's really just tired, or tired of the dating world.

Good luck

Answer 6

Now this is what i call a philosphical question. ....and philisophical questions demand a philisophical answer.....

I would venture to say that you are experiencing or following the theory of evolution... In order to maximize survivability, you need to choose the mate that will give you security and ensure that your offspring or genes in general are carried on. Your doubt about his sincerity is a test or screen to weed out the 'losers'. Trying to ask us what he's thinking is asking us to read his mind....sorry.

But at least we know why you're asking.

Answer 7

He most likely is lying. I'm going through this as well. My boyfriend hardly calls, texts, IMs, or even sees me.. he's always out at parties and I know he's lying to me..; If he is lying, I say you dont need a liar, no one does... and I also say drop him.

Answer 8

Maybe he is lying. Maybe he is tired. Maybe he has lost interest.

Whatever, i think his actions mean you should move on with your life and find interesting things to do with other people.



Sorry. i doubt that this is the answer you were hoping for.

Answer 9

I don't think so. I think "tired" has just taken precedence over phoning you. If that's fine, and you understand, then let it slide. Have you ever been tired after work or school or something and didn't feel like talking?
If you think that's unacceptable, then confront him.

Answer 10

If you needed to ask you already know the answer, you only want someone to tell you that you're right and I'm sorry to say, but in my opinion, he's lying and you were right.