I have told her I am having a party.....about 5 months ago! I relly don't like her but she is like attached to me. She is going to be SO offended because I didn't invited her because she is very immature. she is gonna freak when she knows i didn't invite her! if i go to her party, she is gonna bring it up! what should i do?
2006-07-17 12:12:49 · 11 answers · asked by someone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your question has a lot of confusing tones to it. You say she's your friend, but you also say you don't like her. If she's your friend, and you are available and want to go to the particular activity, then go. If she's your friend, but you're just fighting about something trivial, going to the party might be the weigh to end the fight. But if you don't like the girl, and you really don't consider her your friend, then just come up with an excuse to not go. If you don't consider her your friend, then it shouldn't matter that you didn't invite her to your party or how freaked out she gets about not getting an invite. If she's your friend and you didn't invite her, maybe it was a budget issue and you were only allowed a limited number of friends or relatives over. She'd understand that if she's your friend.
2006-07-17 12:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by wickedvicked1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TOO many fake people nowaday! Do not be one of them! BE honest and upfront. Don't go to her party, if you really don't like her. That is giving mixed signals. Yes, you can give mixed signals even in a friendship or in your case an acquaintance relationship. You can have tact and just tell her that you are only inviting close friends. If she thinks she is a close friend, she will be upset. You must lay the cards on the table-now. Better now than later. Keep stringing her on as a friend and your string will break eventually anyway. Stop calling her back. Tell her to not call you so much, etc.. There are tactful ways to lose someone.
2006-07-17 19:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you cannot go to hers...you don't want to be two faced here. This way when she realized you didn't invite her to yours, she will get the idea. She may even have invited you to hers so as to get an invitation from you.
2006-07-17 19:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pretty obvious you dont deserve to go to her party. you are not her friend. why should you go? if you were a friend at all you would help her through her "immaturity". you have already offended her and she doesnt even know it. with a "friend" like you, she sure doesnt need anymore enemies.
2006-07-17 19:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go to her party. You do not need to be her friend if you do not like her.
2006-07-17 19:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Amy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you can't make it to her party because someone in your family died and their funeral is on that same day. Act sad and depressed. It always works for me.
2006-07-17 19:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a present saying u couldnt go, something came up, that ur parents or whatever dont like yall hanging out that u cant hang anymore.
2006-07-17 19:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to her party if you dont like her that much
2006-07-17 19:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go....that would be the correct message to send. you don't like her period so don't pretend to by going to her party
2006-07-17 19:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not much of a friend
2006-07-17 19:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋