What is so unattractive about a black woman?

Question

I've noticed that several people feel that black women are unattractive. As a black woman, I strongly disagree. Is it our curves? Our lips (which some people spend dearly to get thier lips done) Our breasts and backsides (breast/butt implants) Our smooth brown skin (tanning salons) Our hair (by the way, my hair is 100% natural and long) What is it?

Answer 1

Some (NOT ALL) have a Serious Attitude Problem. They might refer to themselves as "Strong Black Women"... but to us guys, they're just Militant Bit_hes.... and that can be a real turn off. Some guys might dig that, but I sure don't.

Answer 2

There are lots of good answers here. I haven't noticed one person say that black women are unattractive. So when you say that you noticed several people say Black women are unattractive, who are you referring to? I also will agree that I do not find black women in general as unattractive. There are some unattractive black women but there are also some unattractive white women, asian women, latino women, etc. I've seen the beautiful and the ugly in all races. Anyways, to answer your question, I don't think any normal individual would say a black woman is unattractive. If you are talking about some of the things people say on TV, the ideas of beauty in our western culture, or a comparison between the type of women most men want with relation to where black women fit into that, then there is much to be discussed. What I am about to say is particular to my experience and I don't believe it is true everywhere you go. But I have noticed that most black women date black men. I occasionally see a black woman with a white man and very rarely with another race. Let's flip it. White guys, I see them mostly with white and asian girls. Black guys, if you don't see them with a Black woman, they are with a white girl and sometimes an asian girl (this seems to be a trend where I live). Latinos I usually see with other latinos. So in general, I think Black women see guys with other girls that are not Black and may feel like they are unattractive. Maybe you don't feel this way at all but some black women do feel this way. Regardless of the demand for Black women by men in general, I believe Black women are beautiful and a Black woman can have any man she wants depending on her attitude. If a Black woman is unattractive, it is not because of her luscious hips, lips, breasts, or booty. God no! That's the cherry on top! If a Black woman is unattractive, it's because of her personality. In the words of Steve Martin from the movie the "Pink Panther", a woman is like an artichoke. It takes a lot of work before you get to her heart. That quote doesn't necessarily relate to the question but I just wanted to use it.*lol*

Answer 3

Who told you that black women are unattractive. There are as many good looking black women as white as brown as yellow skinned. An attractive women, can be small or big, tall or short, light or dark. Everybody has their own view of attractive. For every woman one man finds unattractive, there are 10 more men that would love to go out with her. So don't listen to what those several people have to say. Them putting down people that they find unattractive makes them unattractive. Beauty isn't just the body, it also has a lot to do with the heart and soul. So you go girl, because you are beautiful.

Answer 4

It's not black women in particular.
Every person has something ugly or beautiful about them. Some people are uglier than others. You can't exactly say that all black women have smooth brown skin, curves, nice lips, etc. but I know what you mean. It is people that find black women unattractive, because they TEND to look different, who are prejudiced.

Answer 5

That's crap i think that black women are the most beautiful women in the world along with latinas. Everything about them from the smooth brown/black skin to the curves, the lips, the back side everything about black women are beautiful. Even the hair. Yes i said the hair. Just as India Aire says " I am not my hair" so why the hell not. There is nothing more attractive and sexy than seeing a beautiful black woman in a 2 piece bathing suit or a bra and underwear wearing high heels. I think that that is just the most sexy thing. I aslo think that black women in tight jeans are so sexy. There aint a damn thing wrong with black women and anyone who think people like janet jackson, beyonce, lisa raye, gabreille union, kelis, halle berry, regina hall, kelly rowland, ciara, l'il kim, Iman, tyra banks, Mya, Namomi Campbell, Sasha, Melyssa Ford and Ki Toy Johnson are not attractive either you are gay or you are intimidated by black women.

Answer 6

There are a lot of attractive black women, I'd date, but there are some ugly ones too. It has nothing to do with race but preferences. Some guys really like the badonky donk butt, some don't. Not all black women have that kind of butt. Seriously, it is preference and hopefully nothing else.

Answer 7

I think there are many beautiful black women as there are black men. I'm white and find many unattractive white women and men. Their probably just jealous that you have natural beautiful curves and lips and tan skin, where as they have to pay thousands to get what you have.

Answer 8

Some black women just like some white women are not attractive... same for men...I think the idea that black women are not attractive comes from the fact that a lot of successful black men have a white wife/girlfriend...

Answer 9

Nothing is unattractive about black women? Just like any race there is beautiful and not so beautiful. I personally work with some very beautiful African American women and they are very proud about themselves and how they look, they take care of their weaves, and natural long hair by getting their hair done every week, wear some very sharp outfits and their makeup flawless, so woman be very proud of your color, curves and bodacious figure. Be Proud Woman.

Answer 10

First of all i am a black guy. By people do you mean white guys?Their is nothing wrong with black women. Beauty comes in all races and the same for uglyness. You just have to find the right person.

Answer 11

I think it has to do with what alot of men are conditioned to think is attractive from the time they are little.What their parents encourage them to think is pretty(especially their mothers).There a alot of men who are attracted to black women and dont show it because they were taught that it's wrong to be,or that we're ugly and not meant to be found attractive.Think about this;if you were a white woman,and you had thin lips and hair,and no curves,and pasty white skin,would u encourage your son to like the opposite?Or would you promote other women that look like you to the death?