the last time he asked me out he asked like 5000000 times and i finally said y then he dumped me 4 my best friend right after we made-out that same day.
2006-07-17 12:07:45 · 31 answers · asked by acuteraspberry 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Being dumped is not nice, but it's a fact of life. Virtually everyone gets dumped at some stage, and whilst it hurts, it is a normal part of growing up.
If you are dumped, then first try to understand why you were dumped - did you do anything "wrong" that you can learn to correct, or was it one of those 'drifting apart' things.
The key is not to feel bad about yourself - tell yourself it is their loss not yours and you are a great person.
Try not to let your confidence get knocked. Continue doing all your other activities as before that did not involve that person and stay busy.
Do not be tempted to pine for them or try to get them to change their mind. Use your energy in a positive way to get on with your life.
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2006-07-24 09:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking its probably because you want someone to tell you yes but the answer is no. He dumped you twice the second time probably being more hurtful than before as it was your good friend. W hat you should do is look in the mirror decide what you want to improve your appearance. may be a hair cut or a new dress, im not talking drastic here, Even just some new nail polish. Make yourself feel good, hold your head up high and show him what hes missing. Then you find yourself someone else who respects you and will make you happy.
2006-07-17 19:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fu*k No! That same exact thing happened to me and you know what I fell for it. Then he did the same exact thing again dumped me for my bestfriend. Seriously, don't you'll feel like a dumbass coz he might just dump you for your bestfriend AGAIN! Unless you want to get even...coz i did. Don't let a mothefuc*er run circles around you...play that game.Because when I got even I left him with his jaw dropped to the floor and saying "whhhaatttttt??". Didn't see that one coming.
2006-07-17 19:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by damsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the pinhead. he cheated on you and dumped you and now he wants you back..?? why would you want to be involved with such a loser. there are more than a few nice guys out there for you to be giving dikhead another chance. My 2 cents.
2006-07-17 19:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by SNS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too! I think you should tell him No. You need a boyfriend who will be there for you and only you! Don't settle for someone who will hit on your friends when your back is turned. You should re evaluate your who your real friends are. You deserve better friends and boyfriends!
2006-07-17 19:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by skybludeb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure tell him you'll meet him then don't show up.
Or even have him come pick you up but not be there. He's a creep sweetie don't give him another chance to break your heart.
2006-07-17 19:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say NO... seems to me u r just his reserved stock for situations when he has nobody. I think Ms Eva has a good idea too, u might want to try it.
2006-07-17 19:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, Keep telling yourself You deserve to be treated with respect. He's not worth it, find a new guy.
2006-07-17 19:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say yes
and make out with his best friend
2006-07-17 19:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Air 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds charming. That is sarcasm.
Why would you want to risk going through that again ? he has already demonstrated that he has no regard for your feelings, that he is not serious about you, and that he is not trustworthy.
The answer is NO.
2006-07-17 19:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋