see my boyfriend has a car but never really come see me b/c he always be tryin to hang out wit his boys i talked to him about it so many times he just say gas is high thats right but what about when he be ridin around wit his boys gas high then too if u ask me. he party all the time but say i cant so i got tired of it so i got sombody on da a boy who come see me n want to be wit me. iam i wrong . what should i do
2006-07-17 11:42:52 · 16 answers · asked by tralilone_09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Base on what you have written. Why do you stay with this guy besides the way he is treating you ? By not having time to come and see you, and saying that gas price is high. You on the other hand have some one on a side who may be different.
The way i see it, there is not that much difference between you two as you both are getting what you want out of the arrangement and not a relationship. You have your guy on the side and your boyfriend is hanging out with his boys as you say.
I can't tell you what to do, but the way i see it you seem to be getting the best of both worlds, by having two men in your life.
2006-07-17 12:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Premio 4 · 24⤊ 8⤋
One boy at a time. No exceptions. Dump the guy who wants to be with da guys. Da sooner da better
2006-07-17 11:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by misty_blue2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is wrong . just remember what goes around comes around. it will come back to you times 3 .
if i was you id think long and hard about the kinda person you are being . i see you as a liar, a cheater, and a bad person. i wouldnt want a friend like you . anyways i would amke a decision on what you want . other wise you are going to lose both of them
2006-07-17 11:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your decision to cheat is purely yours, if you're feeling guilty about cheating then you need to end it with this other guy. But, you should talk to your boyfriend and let him know that you want and need more time with him....Ok, if gas is so high catch the local transportation system in your city to visit.
2006-07-17 11:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ebonee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not married or have a ring on from him, I say do whatever you want to do. Drop him if gas prices are too high for you but not for his boys..what kind of B.S. is that?
2006-07-17 11:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a number of adult men in this earth to circulate on and date your friends ex. extra somewhat if she no longer over him. You making the main appropriate determination and that i'm hoping do no longer see him in secret because of the fact that can harm your friendship. adult men come and circulate yet a sturdy chum is complicated to discover.
2016-11-02 06:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by falls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with this new guy you met he seem that hes really nice and genuinely like you, at least he comes to see you!...Your boyfriend is a party guy and is most likely fooling around because its summer..leave him!
2006-07-17 11:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by HotBarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and say thats what ya get 4 not takin me ridin he might like his boys better than u
2006-07-17 11:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by hotcakelaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the guy who is makin excuses and be with the one who treats you good. my boyfriend lives an hr away 4rm me but he comes sees me when he has time, my point is if someone wants to c you there should never be anything holding them back.
2006-07-17 11:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the new boy. You probably shouldnt be with both of them, unless they are okay with it.
2006-07-17 11:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by jlrgds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is bad! Perhaps dump him, as he obviously doesn't care!
2006-07-17 11:45:21 · answer #11 · answered by loudy_foudy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋