i think i am very ugly but i cant say it because of course i think that
2006-07-17 11:18:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Remember Real beauty is beyond the shape of your body or the color of your skin, hair, eyes...
It's inside of you.
People like a lot of different things. Sure a lot of them buy into societies definition of 'beautiful' - (which is usually, far too skinny and has over $100 000 of computer enhancement for commercials, movies and paper ads) - and to be honest, not everyone buys into that.
If you're kind, honest, generous... if you care about anyone or anything enough to love... then you can be honest with yourself and realize you are beautiful.
I'm sure you're great person, your self-esteem may need some work, but you'll be fine. I imagine you're rather sweet and beautiful.
Hope you have a good day.
2006-07-17 11:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by darekdeangleo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This sounds like an issue of self-esteem. Given that I have some experience in dealing with that, allow me to suggest an exercise.
Go stand in front of a mirror. Take an honest look at yourself, noticing your faults. Then challenge yourself to name something good about yourself. When you do that, then start letting the faults start fading away. Figure out what you might need to do to change what you perceive as a fault into something else.
After that, ask yourself if the person that you see in the mirror is someone that you find repulsive. Act as if it is another person. Then you can begin to think that you are prettier than what you thought before.
Please ignore the nathering nabobs of negativism. I would suspect that they respond that way due to issues that they have with themselves.
2006-07-17 18:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think you're so ugly? I'm going to take it on faith here and say with full conviction that you are not at all ugly! So there! :-) Seriously, we often tend to be more critical of ourselves than we should be. Without a picture that's about as far as I can take it.
2006-07-17 18:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks R not everything, but I agree it can help.
Bet UR far prettier than U think U R.
2006-07-17 18:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me a pic if you want. I bet you're not ugly. you might have Body Dysmorphic Disorder though, if you're that convinced that you're ugly. I've got it too, it's when you can't see yourself correctly and you end up getting a really distorted self-image and feel like a monster. you might want to look into it, just know that you're not ugly, and what really matters is your soul. :)
2006-07-17 18:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Natalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter what we thing , it's what you think. We could tell you all day how pretty you are but if you don't feel pretty there is nothing we can say to change that. You are as pretty as you think you are. Who cares what other people think they don't have to look if they don't want to.
2006-07-17 18:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Share Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you look like, or what you are like, but I can tell you that God loves you just the way you are. And He thinks the world of you.
2006-07-17 18:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by save_me_now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're beautiful. If God made you in his own image, you have to be. You're out of this world...get it? Because God's out of this world? Okay, yea, that was wack.
You're prettier than you think you are anyway. :)
2006-07-17 18:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by lilsedalemami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about the need of your attention.
your simply fishing for compliments.
be happy with what you have work with it.
and theres always surgery.
but, if you have a nasty personality then you have nothing but a pretty face and body, + personality is always something guys dig.
2006-07-17 18:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably are ugly. There's nothing wrong with that.
2006-07-17 22:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Felicity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋