Im a strong independant person and maybe a bit selfish , i want to share my future with my new parnter but not (not yet anyway) under the same roof.Friends say i will scare him off by not committing totaly but i just feel happy together love being with him but its nice to have my own space. I do love him and he stays over most of the week so i can put up with his habits (annoying and not so) because i know he can go home at anuytime.so i dont feel the need to nag, which i listen to my pals do all the time. Lifes to short for all that. Am i being selfish or what ....i dont want to lose him and be on my own again weve bin together for 2 years now!
2006-07-17 11:06:27 · 4 answers · asked by bubbles123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not being selfish. Talk with him, explain that you love him, but you like having your space at this time. You can commit without moving in together. Keep true to yourself.
2006-07-17 11:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants more than you do. He wants a serious, commited arrangment and you don't. If you are together on the weekends, why not just let him move in? He will be responsible for half the bills then. If you feel that maybe you want to be married before he moves in with you....tell him that. Otherwise, it seems like you might just want to stay single...and just have him there when you want him! That's not be very fair to him or you!! Ask yourself if it's more important to let him move in or more important for you to have your own space! That should answer your question. Chances are that he won't wait around forever!
2006-07-17 11:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 19:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instinct.
2006-07-17 11:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋