My boyfriend (50) and myself which is 21 years younger, have been involved for almost 7 yrs. now. Too risk running out of characters i'm going too give you the short version. Last year around this time i came upon some VERY QUESTIONABLE situations involving certain females and needless too say that he denied EVERYTHING even though i talked too the women and they confirmed knowing him and a couple of them even went as far as too tell me that they were involved with him. He's in Chicago on a temp. work assignment. He's been up there for a little over 2yrs. now. One of the girls that lives there told me that about a few months after he moved out there that they started dating each other and that he was single and all of that. Also she & another person mentioned meeting him through MATCH.com - which i believe ecause i found a profile that he made for them. He told me that it was for a free trip and so he had too make it good enough too win. YEAH! He lied about that & knowing these women.
2006-07-17 10:53:53 · 16 answers · asked by JEANNIE2525 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump the chump and date someone your own age
2006-07-17 10:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by RAZR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts to face but obviously there is something wrong! I understand if it was one woman that made these claims but several sounds a bit too fishy! I would ask the other woman to do a three way and not tell him that you're on the line and see how the two of them converse. By the content of their conversation you will be able to tell if it is just a friend or not type of situation. If you have the money, look into private investigation. I know you need proof but he does not sound like a trustworthy person. I hope it is you just being paranoid and everything is alright between you two but unfortunately it does not sound that way.
2006-07-17 11:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be dating a 51 year old. He is obviously lying. This man is way more experienced than you and has manipulated women in the past from what you say. You need to find a man of your age because you will not and do not have nothing in common with this grandpa. This is clearly not a relationship. This is a daycare center (not a good one at that) leaving your butt behind.
2006-07-17 11:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question would be what the hell are you doing with a man 21 years older than you in the first place?
However, why are you now asking what to do when you already know the answer? Are you thinking of STAYING with a man almost twice your age who is CHEATING on you with multiple women? If so, are you on drugs or insane?
GET THE HELL OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP, find someone close to your own age who actually lives in the same city as you do and stop even TALKING to this lying, cheating son of a *****.
2006-07-17 10:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't say I am the expert in relationships,..but really what is the question here? The only one I came up with was should you break up with him gentle and ladylike or the real vengeful B all us women can be....the correct answer is do both BUT please make a clean break. Once a liar ALWAYS a BIG FAT liar! Life's too short...move on!
2006-07-17 11:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by la5off 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, now!........You knew the answer to that question a while back. He isn't worth the time it took you to type in your little story here. Don't worry so much. Believe it or not...sometimes it works better if you just leave it alone!
2006-07-17 11:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jaded 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if hes on match hes looking trust me ive met alot off there and they are players. second if hes that far away for that long then ya hes cheating. third dump that zero and find you a hero...lol maybe even try match or just get yourself out there and stop pining over a looser...
2006-07-17 10:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by wildflower776usa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would not waste my time. Once a cheat. always a cheat. He had a good thing with you, but it seems obvious he cares only about sex and not you. You are young and can do better.
2006-07-17 10:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by Chaga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off - you are too good to be treated like that. He obviously doesn't care about you enough to treat you well, so don't stick around.
2006-07-17 10:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by alisha_4080 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him you can do better you need be in a relationship with someone who respects you enough to tell you the truth
2006-07-17 10:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by valgal115 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋