If my wife says not tonight darling Iv'e got a headache i believe her ! If i say not tonight darling iv'e got

Question

headache ! "SHE THINKS THAT I'M HAVING AN AFFAIR.WHY? it's her that gives me the headache in the first place, are women "NUTS"

Answer 1

Yes, we are. Get over it.

Answer 2

Traditionally, men are more eager for sex than women are. So when a man says 'not tonight', women think theres something going on.

By the way, does your wife have a headache when you want to have sex more than once a month? If so, and you believe her, you're kinda gullible. Most likely when she says 'not tonight, I have a headache' she simply means she's not in the mood. Next time when she says that, get up and get her two aspirin and a glass of water.

Answer 3

Actually women just need to be reasured sometimes, just as men do. I'm sure you have (once upon a time ) needed that resurance too. I'd like to refer you though to a website, that my husband and I have found to be very helpful in our relationship. If you or your wife like history at all, this will be intersting as well as helpful. www.bible.com (Remember and FYI in case you didn't know, God believes in marriages. And he believes in them lasting. Try not to respond when your angry. Take time to pray and always be thankful at the beggining of your prayer and always repent (ask for forgiveness) for things that you've done wrong. Also always remember that none of us are perfect. I'm sure you and your wife have numerous things about you that are irritating, but you also have love or you would not be together. get a Greek and Heberew Dictionary like Strongs version. Look up Charity. This word is in the bible (in case you don't already know) and in the Greek and Hebrew Dictionary it means Love. Check 1Corinithians chapter 13 on Charity. Try to be understanding and help her to be understanding too. We (Christains) are all fighting the battle for good. Even if our approaches seem different. Take a look at what the goal of the approach is and not the way to achieve it. God bless both of you.

Answer 4

It's very uncommon for a guy to pass on sex. I for one have never had a guy say no or they had a headache. You are just going to have sit down with her in an ammusing conversation and let her know that you do in fact have a headache when you say you do. Tell her that you know it sounds uncommon. (Diff. do it in a humuorous way, or she will think you are lying.)

Answer 5

Leftover roast fowl (from the community Spanish eating place) with mushrooms in crimson wine, grilled asparagus and potatoes, socca cake (chickpea flour pancake) with goat cheese and honey and a huge bowl of cherries for dessert!

Answer 6

no women r not nuts. and maybe if u spend a little more time together she wont think ur having an affair. talk to her about everything have no secrets between u. and what i mean when i said spend a little more time together is go out, see a movie, if ur idea of spending time together is having sex then everything is gonna go to hell.

Answer 7

next time your ready for bed, bring in a glass of water and an asprin,if hse says whats that for, just say for your headache, if she says she dosent have one, then say cool then lets make love, and if you have one, do the same for tyourself, that way no headaches, your both up to makeing love, it that dosent work, then maybe one of you is fooling around.

Answer 8

You have a good point here.Why dont you make your wife understand this.Womens are not nuts we are just little to complicated to understand sometimes.

Answer 9

If you think for one minute that you understand women, you have the time just about right.

Answer 10

Because men NEVER turn down sex. NEVER. I think it happened to me once in my entire lifetime.....and he was just being a jerk and paying me back for not being in the mood the day before.

Answer 11

Yeah, it sucks but there isn't much we can do about it. That's life, sorry to got put in that tough spot...