Whenever I hang out with my friend and her friends call, she would talk to them for an hour and completely ignore me. But when I call her when she hang out with her friends she barely talks to me. Like the two times I called her she was hanging out with her friends and i had big problems. She said, "Oh I'm hanging out with my friends..call you back later." And she doesn't call me back. yet when we hang out and her firends call she would totally talk to them for hours while hanging out with me. it hurts me that she would talk to her friends and with me, barely say a word. She always say her friends are there for her and she would do anything for a friend. yet when I call her shes always like, "Sorry doing something. Have to go. Bye." And I only call her when seriously there is something wrong. Should I tell her how I feel?
2006-07-17 10:41:44 · 15 answers · asked by ditzygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop hanging around with her and stop colling her. It's that easy. Why go through the heartache when you can just avoid it?
2006-07-17 10:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should look for other friends... Friends that will ALWAYS be there for you. A true friend isn't someone who is willing to put you off for someone or anyone else without a good reason. You should talk to her nicely and explaining how you feel about what she's doing in a way that will not offend her too much. If she doesn't understand, get new friends that are willing to treat you right and give you the time of the day that you deserve.
2006-07-17 12:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sure u must tell her but tell her the whole truth and don't try to make it easy for her
tell her what she did wrong and how that affect u
then tell her that this way isn't working for u and she MUST treat u the same as her friends cuz u diserve it
and take it an advice from me honey,,,, U TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT U .. if u let them go by hurting u then that's the way they're gonna treat u forever
but if u stand up for urself and say HAY HAY..STOP RIGHT THERE i don't like the way u treating me and i won't accept it and i should be treated as good as i treat u ,, once u say that and insist on it trust me a lot of things will change
people won't give u something unless u claim it .. insist to be treated with respect and care and u'll find it ,,,
2006-07-17 10:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother telling her how you feel, by the way she behaves, shes not really a friend anyway. She just hangs with you sometimes. You wont make her more of a friend by telling her that shes hurting your feelings, because she doesnt really CARE about your feelings apparently.
Find a new, real friend and blow this one off.
2006-07-17 10:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like telling her how you feel would make that much of a difference - she doesn't sound like she's your friend, at all. I've had friends like that, and trust me, you don't need them. You'll make better friends, especially when you stop trying to hang out with inconsiderate rude girls.
2006-07-17 10:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...you should find another friend. she already told you the answer. she stated she would do anything for a friend. so you must not be considered her friend. not to hurt your feelings..but it does not get any clearer than that..unless she says get lost. move on and dont take it personal... she is the ignorant one.
2006-07-17 10:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should have a life aside from this 'friend', its hard to get friends, but its how it is. people dont care about other peoples problems most of the times, and i think she is not much of a friend to u from what u wrote
2006-07-17 10:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Viktoriya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!!!! You have to be open to your friends, if she ignores you then she is not your real friend. Always better to let it out than keep it locked inside.
2006-07-17 10:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by elipra91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop dealing with it and end yall friendship or talk to your friend about it and let your friend how you feel n if your friend dont understand than next time yall go out act like her and see how she like it.
2006-07-17 10:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by tralilone_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the mother of all friends.
trust me!!.....she is NOT a friend.A friend is always there for her friends whenever they're in need no matter what.I'm sorry but it looks like she really doesn't care.
2006-07-17 11:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋