if you and your bf have gone out for 1 mo. and argue most of the time do you think its true love?

Question

you fight hardly for just dumb things or things that hurt you and things that are not suppose to do anything

Answer 1

No, it's not true love. It's a power struggle and a major red flag/warning sign of a potentially abusive relationship. Protect yourself and get out now. It will only get worse, and you could eventually get seriously hurt. If you doubt what I'm saying, check out some domestic violence web sites and run down some of the lists of warning signs.

Answer 2

If you use this example-when a gorilla wants a female gorilla they bang on there chest as loud and as hard as they can to show the girl he has what it takes to protect her.

In some cases, it is just a game. I believe if the man is tough only when necessary he is not putting on a show. If the man buys you flowers, he is sweet. If opens the car door for you he is a gentleman. If he has a dependable car, he is responsible. If he has a good job he is hardworking and disciplined, If has been on his current job for more than 2 years he is focused, if he calls you after the date and said he had a great time and do you think we can do it again some day he is comfortable with you. This is worth keeping... Just remember living together changes things sharing checking account's make it challenging and going on a long well planned road trip (only if u have a good cell phone and someone knows where your going and that you will stay in touch) a road trip is a great started to a long term commitment for the future... The theory here is if you can get a long real well dating, and think you would like to take it to the next level, than a car ride for about 6-8 hours you will inevitably start to really know one another. You need to make sure you are going to do something that you both like (activities)....

Answer 3

I do not know your age, or maturity.. that has something to do with things,
If you argue about everything,,
where is the fun?
where is the romance?
where is the respect,
the kindness,
THE SPARK,, or attraction is about what,? Maybe you too are just opposites,
or do not like each other,

why would you want to be in the company of someone you are fighting with every minute, isn't that frustrating?

IF YOU ARE INEXPEWERIENCED in dating, the good news is the dating is the FUN PART, EXCITING PART, ETC.

iF HE IS MISERABLE NOW, HE WILL ONLY GET WORSE

just consider yourself allergic to each other ,, and say bye bye,,
unless you like to argue,

good luck

Answer 4

what do u think? well, for me it's just a normal thing for lovers to argue with things sometimes, if you argue it doens't mean you don't love each other but if most of the time that what happens is argue then make up, argue then make up... well, something's wrong... better think twice before you two tie up the knot or else you'll live like hell...
"don't be with someone who you can live with be with someone you can't live without

Answer 5

At the beginning real love is not supposed to hurt. Sounds like you've already gotten off to a bad start. Good luck!

Answer 6

I don't believe it is true love. Most couple who argue a lot have been together for longer than a month before they argue a lot.

Answer 7

If you enjoy the drama, stay in the act. If not, become a movie critic and rate this an F and never get back into it.
If it is like this now, imagine when real issues come! Think about it! Do you deserve better? YES!!!!

Answer 8

How could you consider that to be true love if all you do is argue?

Answer 9

Well, it gives you practice for later, when you can argue about more important things.

Answer 10

Absolutely, not...if you're arguing already......think how it will be 6 months from now...the arguing will never stop