Maybe Im not prgnt after all.... PLEASE HELP?

Question

Ok here it is.... I have a regular cycle every 28 days... My lsst cycle was june10-13.... I had unprotected on june25... My cycle was due for july11 and today is the july17 and still no sign of prgntcy or my cycle.... I tested july15 in the evening with a first response and NEGATIVE..... I tested again july16 with my first and NEGATIVE.... The time of conception was when I was most fertile according to the ovulation calender... Is there a possibility that I still may be prgnt bc my cycle has never missed like this before.... PLEASE ANSWER

Ok... my cycle is every 32 days but the 11th is still the day of my expected day of my period. 2day is july 19th and still nothing. Oh and to mention like last week some time my s were sore but that only lasted about a week and now there just soft. Oh and like everyday now for about 2 weeks ive been having a clear and sometimes whitish discharge..... does ne one know anything about this.... Oh... and last but not least my food always feel like it want to come up sometimes a small amount does, slight pains to my lower stomache and head.... HELP ME.... again

That was supose to say my s were sore and now they're soft.....

Answer 1

I'm not sure I understand because your information is somewhat confused... First of all, if your cycles are 28 days, then if you started on 10 June, the next one should be due on 8 July, not 11 July. So that's not consistent.

Next, your cycle is never late; you're always in *some* part of your cycle!! I assume you mean that your *period* is late.

But the main problem is that you apparently were assuming you are exactly average--which is the *only* information you can possibly get from an online ovulation calendar--rather than trying to know when *you* are fertile.

So...here's some background... A woman ovulates about 2 weeks (usually 12-16 days) before her next period. So if your period was due on 11 July, you probably ovulated in the 26-30 July range. If you ovulated on 26 July, then sex on the 25th was exactly right. But if you ovulated closer to the 30th, then you needed to have sex a couple of days later in order to have the highest likelihood of conceiving.

And, lastly, it is always possible to ovulate late. In this case, your period would have also been late. So, it's quite possible that either you are pregnant and your period isn't really overdue yet (and that's why the tests are negative) or your period is on its way. The first case is only possible if you also had sex later in the cycle--how much later depends on how late ovulation was. (Even if you've never been late before--there's always a first time!! Think back 3-5 weeks; was there any sort of stress in your life?)

You *can* be pregnant and have repeated negative home pregnancy tests. Some women never "spill over" HCG into their urine until much later in pregnancy. If you want to be more certain, see your midwife or doctor and get a blood test which is more accurate for that reason.

For more details about all of the above--and to learn how to increase the chances of getting pregnant--please read _Taking Charge of Your Fertility_ by Toni Weschler.

Good luck!!

Answer 2

There is still a small possibility that you could be pregnant. It sounds like you've always had a regular cycle so the reason your period is late may be because of stress or weight loss/gain. There are many factors. Do you have any pregnancy symptoms like morning sickness, fatigue, nausea, etc? There are so many reasons why the test came up negative. It could be that you are not pregnant or it could be you are pregnant and the HCG levels in your body are still low....Who knows why. The best thing to do is go to a doctor. You can have a blood or urine test done.

Answer 3

You could possibly be pregnant, but you may not be. A big reason why your period may be late is because your stressing. Your mind plays tricks on you. So dont stress about. When you took the test you may have been taking the to early. If you dont want to go to the doctor then wait about a week and try again and in the mean time remember that your mind does and will play tricks on you if you stress.

Answer 4

Gurl, i know what you are going through b/c i period was 2 weeks later one time and i was so worried that i was pregnant and so i did a pregnancy test and it came back negative, then the following day my period came. What i think might be wrong in your case is that you are still worried, you need to relax, and if your period still dont come then take the test a week from now.

Good Luck!

Answer 5

Being a nurse i can tell you, you can be pregnant even if the pregnancy test says you are not. You might not have enough HCG levels or they may be low enough for a test to pick up. The best way if you really want to know is to take a blood test.

Answer 6

First of all take a deep breath- sometimes missing cycles has a lot to do with stress....

Secondly, it might be a good idea to go to the doctor to get tested. That way you'll have peace of mind.

Try a clinic near you for free or reduced fee services: www.plannedparenthood.org

Answer 7

I really don't think you could be pregnant. It has been plenty of time between the "unprotected" and now for it to show up on the test. It's quite possible it is stress. Are you "trying" to get pregnant? The stress of that alone could possibly be making you late. Sometimes when people want it to happen really badly, they end up stressing themselves out, making them late, and ultimately getting their hopes up.

Anyway, I wish you the best of luck!!
Mandy

Answer 8

Dr is the way to go, my friend tested negative at home and positive at the dr's. He said that in some people the pregnancy hormone is so low it's undetected on the store bought tests.

Answer 9

it is possible that u r pg. i tested 3 months b4 i got a positive reading. it depends on the person, but to make sure go get a blood test.

Answer 10

yes. see your doctor or test again in a week