How can i make my friends not ignore me anymore?

Question

My friends have been ignoring for a little over six months and i really dont why they seem to do that. They have been leaving me out of everything just like that and it was never this way i dont want to aks them because i am scared of their reaction my friend told me every one was annoyed by me but she didnt say why and i have not done anything to offend them exept be me. what should i do?

Answer 1

Baby, you want to know why they are ignoring you, then you've got to ask them. They have a problem with the way you are, then they really have a problem, cause the most important thing in this world is to be the person you are and not just a pretent be friend just so that they start to like you better. Then you'll be all miserable and unhappy. You be what you are and if they don't want you in the crowd, find new friends and some who will appreciate you for what you are.

keep it up babe!

Answer 2

they dont sound like you friends. friends just dont leave another friend outta stuff. if she is really ur friend then she would have to told you everything on why you annoy them if they really feel that way about u. but why be scared about there reaction on just asking a question? there suppose to be you friends so dont be scared. you have already let this go on long enough its time you find the real reason why they leave out of things.

Answer 3

forget approximately approximately her. we could continuously settle for that individuals will circulate yet in straightforward terms few will stay. Face the certainty that she won't be a real chum (i do no longer propose something right here), a real chum is somebody who you recognize continues to be with you despite in case you do no longer communicate sometimes.She has moved on and chuffed, you may too. Make new acquaintances and teach her which you do no longer choose a chum like her. HAHA LOL.

Answer 4

Don't do anything. If you didn't do anything wrong in the first place, then they are wrong, right? You need to make new friends, even if these people do start talking to you.

Try talking to new people and doing things you like doing. It doesn't sound like they are wonderful friends anyway if they can ignore you for 6 months!

Answer 5

You've been putting up with that for SIX MONTHS??? Obviously they're not really your friends if they've been treating you that way for that long and no one will sit down and tell you why.

I think it's long overdue for you to move on and find other friends. Real friends. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

I think that talking to them is the only option bercause no one will tell you how they feel better than themselves because tehy are the ones that have the "problem."The situation isnt gonna go anywhere unless you go and say something to them, mabye they are waiting for an answer from you.

Answer 7

Find new friends. Why would you call these people friends if this is the way they treat you....Trust me, they're all dependant on something and you couldn't meet the need. You'll feel much better to get them out of your life and be appreciated by new people........I do.

Answer 8

Get the one that seems to still like you the most alone and ask her what's up. Its important to get her alone, so she can deny having told you, if she needs to: you are most likely to get an honest answer that way.

If she won't tell you, then, yeah, its time to get new friends.

Answer 9

first of all,
friends that ignore you are not good friends.

here....

Bad friend signs.
These are some signs of a BAD friend:
BAD friends that want to use you:

•only ask you out when no one else can go.
• leave you out . (Either by themselves or with their other friends)
•make lame excuse when asked out.( in other words they only hang out with you when it suits them/benefits them).
•say their ill in a text, when you call their house to see there alright they've gone out with someone else. ( lie to you so they can get away from you).
•they only talk to you when they want something (big sign).
•drop you at any given moment.
( went to a party and invited some friends that eventually went by themselves somewhere else while I was at the party with another friend).

BAD friends that are HIDDEN ENIMIES.

•they go out of there way to make you feel unwanted , yet pretend to like you.
•do mean things to you then have a go at you ( denie it) for pointing it out to them. ( they do mean things to you then laugh at you or denir it when you point it out to them).
•they will go out of there way to make sure others can't talk to you (isolation).

BAD friends are DISRESPECTFUL and MEAN.
•they tell you they can't come the day before saying a reason which is acceptable, than the next day they say the true reason which is a different thing like a party
•they will make insinuative comments about you
•say stuff to each other so you feel left out and wondering if they will even talk to you that day.
can like"i wander if Ema will be moody today" or "I wander if Ema will talk to us to today" .
•They clearly speak behind your back with almost no sensitivity towards how rude and isolating that is. ( In other words, they don’t really care how you feel around them).

Bad friends
Cannot be trusted.
Have almost no regard for your privacy, feeling that what you say to them is okay for them to tell their other friends.
Have a tendency to isolate you.

Make you feel a need to change yourself to suite their tastes ( but this usually means the person who wants to change needs to look into themselves and their motives).

So bad friends can recognize this weakness and use you to their advantage. Many people have a problem where they see someones weakness or “usefulness” and exploit it. Some cant help it , others do this on purpose. Stay away from these people., they are poisonous.

Really don’t suite your personality. Outgoing / engergetic – couch potatoe/ wont do anything new.
Don’t really support the things you want to do and are interesting to you. Are reluctant to go anywhere with you/ feels that they SHOULD just to be NICE but have no real interest in what you want to do. This can be seen as lying in a sense if they leave you.


Quotes;
The only friend you need is the one that needs you

If you don’t like me, I’m not wasting my time on you. Give me the cold shoulder I’ll do that to.
- Cassidy Weatherington

If you go to people, but they don’t come to you. That simply means you don’t need them. GO find those that come back to you.
- Quakew

A friend is someone who lets you forget that the two of you look different together.
A friend is not afraid of you or what you stand for, they want to learn and appreciate it as much as you do.
- C.Matthews

A friend is not afraid of what you are.
- C.Matthews

the only friends you need in your life are the ones that need you.
-unknown


Don’t waste your time with people who feel it’s a waste of time on you”
-C.Matthews


-never make a priority someone who only sees you as an optioin.
-unknown.

Answer 10

just ask them why are they ignoreing u if they do not answer u just make new friends 2 make them joulous!