what would you do, if you have been with your man for 4 years, have 3 kids from a previous relationship and your relationship is perfect. we are moving in 2 days together, i just found out i was pregant, and iam scared to tell him... he might get upset....what to do.
2006-07-17 09:55:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
the thing is that he has 4 kids, plus just excepted my 3, by prosing and moving in with me..we talked about having a baby, but later on in life..
2006-07-17 10:02:37 · update #1
Be honest and tell him so he feels you have given him the opportunity to discuss your future together and remember a baby wont keep you together, you know that, so go into it knowing that he may be gone too. Then after 4 get your tubes tied. Babies are so expensive and so hard to raise on your own. I know. I have an 11 year old daughter and I am 21 weeks pregnant. My fiancee and I just ended our relationship, so here I go again on my own.
2006-07-17 10:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.... If he cares about you it shouldn't upset him. The thought of an extra mouth to feed and extra expenses might hit hard at first, but like I said if he really cares about you it will ease up. Tell him before you move in together. IT is better to have the worst happen now than after you move in together. The truth is he'll have to know sooner or later and it would be better sooner.
2006-07-17 17:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, because you can't be lifting heavy things during the move. You already have three kids so it's not like this is an entirely new experience. If he really loves you and is "perfect" he'll be happy.
2006-07-17 16:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not something you can hide, is big thing. And i think he doesn't have kids so that will be his first, so i will tell you to go and tell him that he is going to be daddy, is his first baybe and i think he will like.
i just dont understend why you afraid to tell him about that. maybe you and him dont understend so good and that why you afraid. but i hope is not that, so girl tell him is his baybe and he have know, and than you and him talk about that-what and how. dont be afraid is normaly tell him and you and him will talk about that what to do.
be happy and love life and have fun and just talk with him,
i wish to be next to you to explaine all to you
just be happy and do not afraid of anything
you are strong girl and always you will have way for to get help from some1.
always
take care and be happy, love life all will be good
all best for you -
serbian girl
:)
2006-07-17 17:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you afraid to tell him if your relationship is perfect? He should understand. This is not something you should/can hide from him. Talk to him and decide what your plans are going to be. Everything will be ok.
2006-07-17 17:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, then he will do the right thing. It is understandable to be a little freaked out, but he should take responsiblity. If things are as good as you make them appear, then everything will work out ok. God bless
2006-07-17 17:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by A* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a perfect relationship if you're too scared to tell him you are pregnant.
2006-07-17 16:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by postalmaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it is his kid how can he be mad????
did u hold a gun to his head when having sex???
did u force him to have sex???
were u sleeping with someone elts????
are u pregnant by ur man or someone elts????
u need to give more details so someone can answer u question better. but u should tell him
2006-07-17 16:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be so honest but if he gets upset then its tough, he should have thought about it before it happend. his got to deal with it.
by the way congratulations!
2006-07-17 16:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by bev5228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What else can you do but tell him? It's his deal too, and you shouldn't have to be afraid of him getting angry about it.
2006-07-17 16:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋