2006-07-17 09:35:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
some russian vodka, good music with candles, a lot of tears... BUT! spend like this only 1 evening.. and then begin new life with smile on ur face. Good Luck, Dear.
2006-07-17 09:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by MissRussia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world. My heart has been broken many times, and by now (I'm 55) it's very difficult to trust women.
The important thing to hold on to is that love is the greatest good and the ultimate value. Without love, life isn't worth living (in my opinion). Cherish love, and lavish it on your friends and relatives if you don't have a partner. There are some shallow, self-seeking people, but there are also a lot of people who are worthy of trust.
2006-07-17 16:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DWELL ON IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! trust me that is the worst thing you could possibly do i had my fience/ babies daddy run away with my mom and i did dwell on it for around 6 months untill I realized that my life was ruined by it i cried every night and most of every day i hated everything i never had fun i hateed them for making me get an abortion and then running away together i thought noone would ever love me again and thta i would never love again but i got over it by telling myself that they weren't worth it and no man is move on and hey have a couple flings get a guy and go to a party just to hang out i'm not saying go have sex with everyone just have fun you'll move on and it will end up better than before trust me.
2006-07-17 16:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by insanityplea420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to find the bright side in something else and concentrate on it. It takes time, but eventually you'll start to feel better, although it doesn't seem like it ever will. I find that just waiting it out is the best way to handle it. If you need to, write a journal entry or a poem about it.
2006-07-17 16:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by was_not_me102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just been through this. I had all sorts of people trying to cheer me up. It sucked. I decided to embrace my hurt and pain and work through all the emotions. I had read that in order to get over real pain you need to get through it by feeling every emotion. The last thing you need to hear is it will get better (we already know that). In so many other cultures they are taught to show real grief and emotion. I think that is a more helpful way.
2006-07-17 16:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by superrrmodel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and good friends are the only thing that I know that can help you now.
Try not to dwell on it, I know how hard that is and trust me I have been where you are now. You just have to realize that its ok that it has happened learn from it and try not to make the same mistakes again. Hugs
2006-07-17 16:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens... and will most probably happen again... and again... But don't become bitter ! Life and love will help you to become yourself and then things will get better ... It's all about learning and experience ... It'll be better when you have experience... You'll appreciate yourself more and see others for what they are ... You'll be able to make better choices and create more solid relationships ...
Good Luck ! And take things in your stride ;^)
2006-07-18 05:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear there is always a first time for everything. You are still young and there are still plenty of guys out there for you to know. This guy might not even be the correct guy for you. Dun be sad and take things easy. Try meeting up with more friends and talk to them. always remember that the guy who break up with you is the one losing not you. Remember to stay clam and be happy k...:)
2006-07-17 17:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by noodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep working hard to keep yourself happy. It's going to be really hard for you to keep yourself preoccupied with other things to think about for awhile.. just know that there's always someone better out there for you.. most people get their heart broken- it takes time to heal , but we come out fine! And you will too!!
2006-07-17 16:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Tiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To relate I have had my heart broken many times, and you learn to get stronger everytime. But sometimes you can get distant from people. Things will get better.
2006-07-21 19:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by FallenAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋