Im gay and very stright acting and looking why is it hard for me to get along with guys that arent into sports and othere stright things??
2006-07-17 09:19:42 · 13 answers · asked by chouchful 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No it is not wrong of you, we all have things that are not attractive to us and if a girly-guy does not work for you or makes you feel uncomfortable in social settings then that is fine. We choose our friends and we choose are partners and they tend to share the same interests as we do or someone we enjoy being around,. SO if you don't like being around fems, it's OK, but don't be cruel to them.
2006-07-17 09:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wheels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal preferences are never wrong, we each have certain things that we find attractive, for me, men hold no attraction (I am a man), but the gay lifestyle does not repulse me at all, I can look at someone and see that they are very attractive, but that doesn't mean that I am attracted to them. Example, Asian features really turn my crank, and if they are wearing glasses, even better. Does that mean that the white woman I see is any less beautiful? not at all.
There are enough different people in this world that you are able to pick and choose a bit!
2006-07-18 02:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Norsehawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In part because you've got some internalized heterosexism going on. What makes sports "straight"? And does the fact that you're into them make you straight? Nope. The phrase "straight acting" only serves to linguistically reinforce the current stereotypes.
2006-07-17 23:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong. Many gay men are not into feminine guys. I'm gay, and I prefer guys that are masculine and into sports because they know how to turn up the heat in the bedroom.
2006-07-17 16:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a very wide spectrum of gays and personalities. They don't all act so feminine (just wanted to mention that is the right way to spell it). You will find some that are more butch for you if you like that more.
2006-07-17 17:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you're talking about. I'm bisexual with a preference for guy. I would much rather hang with a more masculine guy rather than someone who acts like a girl.
2006-07-17 19:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Liir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. Guys will be attracted by different kind of guys, and turned off by another. i am the same way. Love watching games on TV, not at all a fashion plate
2006-07-17 16:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't wrong as long as you don't hurt or belittle them, if you do, please don't -- there is simply no reason.
You might consider your own use of language and ask yourself if you are still hiding and afraid that people will realize you are gay if they see you with a gay boi who acts like a flame. If that is your problem, think about it -- and leave it behind -- its baggage you don't need.
If its just your sexual preference *shrug* its your business.
Reyn
2006-07-17 19:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't sound gay you sound as if you are g0y.
It is completely ok to like guys and it is completely ok to not like the stereotypical gay guy.
2006-07-17 16:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own preferences. You're definitely not weird because of that.
2006-07-17 16:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋