-she is on birth control, i watch her take it every night and if she forgets, then we dont do anything for at least 2 days-
-I use condoms with spermicide and I always pull out early-
-often times i have "handled the situation" myself during the day so that my "discharge" is much lower than it normally would be otherwise.
I am trying to take as many precautions as I can.
2006-07-17 08:51:47 · 6 answers · asked by hendrixforvols 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Wow, you certainly are taking precautions! Not sure whether to say you're being overcautious, or sensible actually!
But I'd think it's normal... you don't want a child right now, and won't risk STDs, that's great. If you're using 2 forms of birth control at once you have about 1/100 chance of getting her pregnant, and that's almost worrying too much. But don't let this rule or worry you. I'd like to say "Don't be nervous!" but that's as good as saying "Cheer up!" to someone depressed, huh?
It's nice to see you're both taking responsibility. I don't know what to suggest apart from reassuring you you're not insane! <3
2006-07-17 08:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by RSJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even with all the stuff you do there is a small chance that she could get knocked up probably like a 0.000001% chance but there is still a chance. You ever talk to her about what she would do if she got pregnant, if she wants an abortion don't worry about it!
plus pulling out early doesn't do alot unless you completely pull out before you feel it comming and just finish the job yourself!
2006-07-17 08:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by jmdavis333 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone reacts differently to the touchy subjects. But I wouldn't worry it sounds like your being very cautious. Unless you are not telling us everything and you getting nervous for a reason...
2006-07-17 08:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is using the Pill properly and you are using a condom as well, you really can relax. Your bases are covered and your risk of pregnancy is exceedingly low.
2006-07-17 09:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you may be a little too nervous. If your feeling nervous about other things besids just the sex...thats called simpathy hormones. her hormons are just getting your's mixed up.
2006-07-17 08:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Teen Talking2teens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't every one be like that, i have to give you a( high five)
2006-07-17 08:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by powernewfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋