after you broke up with a cheating man they want you back but if you say no even though you want to say yeah why they do dumb things to get back at you. and what should you do?
2006-07-17 08:35:28 · 9 answers · asked by muffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't say never go back because people do make mistakes! But a mistake happens ONCE!Don't be a fool! I have watched people drive people to cheat... Yes, Im an adult and it happens! Men are physical, and sex doesn't necessarily mean they want that person! It may be the physical release, if they have been denied it!!!! Not saying that's your case! Its just an example! Hey knowing all the details of your relationship like no one else does....take a mental break and look at your relationship from the outside in! Evaluate it as if you were advising your best friend what would you tell her to do????
If you plan on staying consider counseling???????
2006-07-17 08:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Pepper 2 · 16⤊ 10⤋
I was with a man for 4 yrs and he constantly cheated on me and i always took him back because he would say that he was sorry and he loved me etc. Things would be good for a few mouth then he would be right back to his old habits. After a while, u need to realize that u need to love yourself first because if u allow your man do your wrong and you take him back all the time, you dont love yourself. Love yourself first! Advice: dont take him back because if he can cheat on your once, he will do it again. Men are stupid. Like they say " You never know a good thing until its gone".
2006-07-17 15:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Carpe Diem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they think with the wrong head.
From my experience, once a guy cheats on you and you keep him, he will always cheat on you. He might not cheat on the next girlfriend, but he knows he can (and has) cheat on you and get away with it.
Keep telling him no. And if he won't leave you alone, tell him you are going to report him for stalking.
2006-07-17 15:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz guys not men are stupid n those that cheat are guys and realize that they had it good with you but also want to see how far they can go with you before they cheat on you ignore him hes not worth it
once a cheat always a cheat
2006-07-17 15:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would NEVER get back with someone who cheated. thats a major trust violation and that is a key factor in any relationship. i would tell them to leave and that i never want to see them again, and if they try to harass then get a restraining order.
2006-07-17 15:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by NAQ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a chetaer always a cheater. Don't take him back.he is just goingto hurt you again. I have been there a done that once in my life and it just gets worst.
2006-07-17 16:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by mariesgizmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do it too. Beleive me, I had the worst girlfriend. She turned all my friends against me and slept with them.
2006-07-17 15:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by chris42050 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater...once a liar always a liar...If you weren't worth it before why is it any different now??? I HATE CHEATERS!!!!!
2006-07-17 15:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run run run cause they will do it again
2006-07-17 15:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋