my wife and I are both 32, and have one child alomost 2 years old. Shes say after having our kid she doen't have sexual cravings is this normal?
2006-07-17 07:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
give her money to go shopping, give her money to go to the salon, take her out once in a while and dont fight with her...
if you do all that and act accordingly... I'm sure you two will be screwing again
2006-07-17 10:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not "abnormal." Having a 2 year old fills up your entire day...it's a very busy time and not much left to "feeling sexy" and wanting sex after tending to the youngster all day.
Maybe show a side of understanding this by helping her out with household chores more (yes, I know you have busy days too at work) bringing her some flowers for no reason, just showing her some tender moments, giving her time alone to relax while you take care of the 2 year old.
Phone her from work just to tell her you love her and how much you appreciate her. Listen to her with your full attention....no television on...just you giving time to her.
Don't hammer her about sex as it will push her into thinking that's all you want.
She will come around if she feels you are giving her support and help with the family.
Good luck.
2006-07-17 08:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by CATHIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. After each pregnancy, a woman's horomone levels even out at a completely different place they were at pre-pregnancy. This happened to me after my first pregnancy, then after my second one, everything went back to normal, if not more so. And after my third pregnancy, my hormones see to be all over the place. So your options at this point would be to either have another child, and hope her horomones level out more in your favor next time, or get her to talk about this with her doctor. If her doctor doesn't want to listen, find another one. Of course if your wife is interested in getting her sexual urges back. If she is not interested, perhaps you guys have a bigger issue that you are not tuning in on. Try a sex therapist, or a marriage councilor.
2006-07-17 07:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by AmandaHugandKiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Its normal she has to be a mother now, You should do cute sensitive things for her like bringing her home flowers or something she likes I like it when my husband brings me home a purse! But you could also help her around the house.She probably gets really tired easy now So she needs you to help in little ways. Hope I helped!!!
2006-07-17 07:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to give you head jobs- she will change her mind. Or you will have some nice thing going for you.
2006-07-17 07:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoot her and get a new wife who is very horny.
2006-07-17 08:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by supersuck13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her fore play, and affection.. kiss her and play with her clit.
2006-07-17 07:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋