we had a falling out last week cus she finks that evry1 thinks she was sik all ova me(we went out an got drunk but i tld my fam she was sik cus id b in poop ovawise!!!)but iv sed sorry loads of times an now it feels as though its got worse and im really scared im goin 2 lose her as a friend cus shes the bestest frend iv eva had!! i want 2 b friends with her and try sort it out 2moro at work but she started hangin with this girl and she knows i dont like her(cus shes a snob!!)i really dont want her 2 b mad with me anymore can anyone plz help me cus i keep cryin!! :'(
2006-07-17 07:16:37 · 13 answers · asked by ♥abi♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Admit you are wrong to her, and explain (in a letter, phone call, email, whatever u can do, or a mutual friend) that you are sorry. and you realize that you were wrong to pin the blame on anyone else but yourself... you won't do it again, and u truly treasure her friendship! it's important to you!! admit that you'd probably be mad too if anyone spread rumors about you, and although you were trying to get out of a situation where ur family would kill you, that's not an excuse to drag her name in the mud. if u can't tell everyone that it was actually you, chances are she may always be a little mad at u for making her look bad! but if she has a big enough heart, hopefully she can learn to forgive... u can't force her, but u can just let her know where u stand, that u are truly sorry and think she is a great person and u won't ever do that again. give her some time to think, don't bother her too much, just be open when and if she comes around. and if u need to kiss her butt for awhile, so be it, cuz that's what u have to do sometimes in order to prove u are truly sorry. but if she's a brat about it then just forget about it and just worry about yourself and how you conduct yourself, and what kind of friend u are. that is most important as u learn and grow up to be mature person, and learn from ur mistakes.
2006-07-17 07:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, in my expert opinion you could give her 2 points. If you really wanted to say sorry you could give her 10. Actually, I know your friend very well - if you give me 10 points, I will pass them to her for you and tell her your really sorry - what do you think?
2006-07-17 14:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop boozing it is bad. it is not woth loosing a friend over an arguemnet say sorry and hope she says the same, then you can ahve a talk and become best friends.
2006-07-17 14:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by jame_football 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We will help you if you learn how to read and write. As of this point in time, I don't have a goddamned clue what the **** you are saying!
2006-07-17 14:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Wookie on Water 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd cry too if I only had your grasp of the English language. Stay in school.
2006-07-17 14:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry and u dont want to lose her as a freind
2006-07-17 16:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get drunk, it is not cool, it is stupid, just ignore them, what is the point of drinking alcoho, tell me one good thing about it, **** happens when you drink alcohol!
2006-07-17 14:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay for her dinner or buy her a handgag or both. that should do the trick.
2006-07-17 14:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by chp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her flowers --chicks dig em and choccys ,, with a card
2006-07-17 14:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by rahalluk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that your sorry or wait till she comes to you
2006-07-17 14:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by elkum127 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋