he married a wowan with money .what do think the chances are he will be abusive to her?
2006-07-17 07:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by little miss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he physical and verably abused me in front of my 6 year old and 2 year old.
2006-07-17 08:26:41 · update #1
It is very possible that it will start up again. Because of the money he may be a little more concerned about showing this behavior to soon. He will try in little ways to gain control of her and her life to the point where when the abuse starts she will accept the responsibility that she provoked the situation and therefore the abuse is war rented. You were very smart to leave him, and now have the knowledge that it is not O.K. for someone to verbally or physically abuse a women.. Good luck.
2006-07-17 07:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by roeskats 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very high.
What is your definition of abusive?
Was it physical and/or verbal?
I am sure that he is a charmer. Once he feels that he gotcha, BAM!
If you dont go at that point, he's gotcha forever.
Dont think that having "money" makes this woman any different from you.
He was just working up the ladder for the cash.
This just proves that money does not make everything better.
Focus on happiness.
2006-07-17 08:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say very likely! I don't know if there is anything you can do. If you confront her she will only deny it. She probably already knows about his behavior.
Abusers are very manipulative(as you know) and has probably waited until they were married to show her his true side.
If she has children living in the home with them you might want to consider stepping in some way. Check out your state laws first before reporting him. You will need some kind of proof. Maybe you can befriend her and be there for her when she needs someone to lean on because of him.
2006-07-17 07:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by love bn a mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you figuring out to purchase the domicile your self, or is it in both your names? once you're the purely one named on the employ settlement, commonly you've the right to kick him out at any time you want. First you talk which includes your landlord and clarify the concern, then you definitely call the police and characteristic them help you evict him. you are able to ought to grant him an chance to carry at the same time any of his property, yet you've a excellent to ask your landlord or the police to supervise the concern even as he does so, to ensure he would not vandalize or thieve something. If the employ is in both your names, that makes it a touch more suitable complicated. the first project you need to do is seek for a sparkling position to employ. Then talk which includes your landlord about ending the employ settlement, or turning the employ completely over for your boyfriend. actual, i'd propose you now to not stay at your present day position of abode. you're a lot safer transferring to a thoroughly new domicile someplace he would not study Protip: do not tell your boyfriend something about your plans to flow out! Plan to p.c.. up your issues and go away in a unmarried afternoon. the a lot less time you're taking leaving, the more suitable useful. Plan to take action even as he's away at artwork or otherwise out of the domicile. (caution: that is totally elementary for an abuser to boost the violence if he suspects a smash-up. it really is perhaps the most elementary condition the position women people get murdered by skill of their fans, if the abusive better 1/2 suspects a split.) yet another project you favor to recognize is that that is in all likelihood he will attempt to "sweet talk" you out leaving. he will in all likelihood make all styles of elements to you about how he will replace and provides you him achievable to redeem himself- he may even cry and beg. do not hear to him for even an prompt, no count how truthful he looks. once you've moved out, you call the police and take a out a restraining order antagonistic to him. you do not favor a reason for a restraining order as long as you do not stay with him.
2016-12-10 10:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once an abuser always an abuser, he might change for a while but his true colors will come out. you did the right thing, and i give u props for leaving because i know it was hard. but stop worrying about him, let him go and just be grateful that you are out of that cycle!
2006-07-17 07:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by 2_good_2_be_true;) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very high! Yeah you made a good choice. If he isn't to his new wife to take personally that he was with you, it doesn't mean you did anything wrong to cause him to do that. He probalby realize being abusive was wrong and got help. Hopefully that is the case.
2006-07-17 07:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably continue to abuse. You did the right thing. Don't worry about the new wife, abusers may get away with it for awhile but that ended for you. Keep your distance.
2006-07-17 07:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Bob D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no longer your place to worry about her. More than likely he will be abusive towards her, but just move on with living your life and be thankful you got away from that situation.
2006-07-17 07:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will almost definitely be abusive to her. People like that never change.
2006-07-17 07:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by cazzi_g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋