My wife miscarried her first pregnancy in May. We are going to try again this month but we are getting conflicting answers. Does anyone know from experience whether or not is okay to have sex everyday after her period for the next 2 weeks or is it better to do it every other day?
2006-07-17 07:07:38 · 15 answers · asked by nick m 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I am also trying to conceive and know exactly where you are coming from. My doctor says not to do it every day. If you do it every other day you will have more fertile sperm than if you do it every day. Also when you are finished put pillows under her hips to make her body incline and make the sperm move inside. This is to be done for about 15 minutes. Don't let her go pee right away. You can also do it in a position that would make the sperm shoot straight in. Relax and take it easy, don't stress over it too much or you will never get her pregnant. It is a psychological thing....Good Luck Torresshs04@yahoo.com
2006-07-17 07:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Adri 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
A miscarriage is always hard.... physically and emotionally-
has she been medically cleared? If so, I would hope that you BOTH were able to sit and talk to her OB/GYN about your desire to try again... He or she should have given you all of the info that is medically correct for your individual situation.... But as a rule, it is said that to have sex everyday lowers the sperm count... Waiting until her fertile days and then having sex should increase your chances.. But if you both are so anxious to conceive, sex will become a chore ( with either a positive or negative result) Don't do that to each other... just enjoy each other and I would imagine that if no other medical issues are present, you will be expecting in no time.... Good luck !
2006-07-17 07:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Midnite s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My 1st husband and I tried for over 5 years doing it only when I was ovulating, both on and off fertility drugs, with no success. My 2nd husband and I did it just about every day, just for fun, and got pregnant in 4 months.
Most people will tell you to only do it during ovulation, as the doctor told us, but as you can see, it really depends on the person. Everyone in my 2nd husband's family is very fertile. Don't know if that made a difference, but his stamina was also awesome. He is able to come back fairly quickly for another go. Again, don't know if that also makes a difference.
The number one thing I suggest for you both is don't think about it too much. All the counting days and fertility monitors, etc. will drive you both insane. This is the one thing I did during my first round of trying and didn't realize it at the time. I definitely think it had something to do with not conceiving. The thought crossed my mind only occassionally the 2nd go.
Best of luck to you both!
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2016-01-12 04:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been trying for 3 years now...and I 've read it all!!!
What I know is they say that of course you can have sex everyday...but some say that if you wait and do it every other day there will be more sperm and better sperm.
I think it's a controversial thing, you should ask your Dr.
good luck
2006-07-17 07:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by Apple Blossom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll continue to get conflicting answers too, because no two women are alike. I have a friend who took 3yrs to conceive, and her doc. told her to do it every other day. (probably recommended when the man has a low sperm count, as this gives it time to "build up"). But for me and mine, every day worked great---took 1month to conceive. You should have your sperm count checked if you're really worried about that. Otherwise, just try not to get so "mechanical" about conceiving and enjoy sex when you feel like it! Best of luck to you
2006-07-17 07:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After countless recommendations, I'm reading "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler. I think that every woman can benefit from the knowledge to be gained about her own cycle and body and highly recommend it.
What the author has to say about frequency is determined by the man's sperm count. If it's normal, you should have sex every day during the woman's fertile time (and the book will give you loads of information about determining exactly when that is.) However, if the man has been tested and found to have a low sperm count, sex should be occurring every other day during the woman's fertile time, in order to give the man a chance to build up his sperm count prior to the next ejuaculation.
2006-07-17 07:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
itll lessen the chances to concieve. If you are doinging it everyday your semen wont get a chance to replenish itself. There will be some but not as large amount. Wait till her fertile time and try evey other day.
This is from Personal experience. We had miscarriage for first pregnancy. Wife had polycystic Ovaries as well. But following the above advice which is what a specialist and books said we went through normal pregnancy and have healthy girl.
2006-07-17 07:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lupin IV 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every time a man ejaculates he starts producing new spem immediately, it takes about 30 hrs for the new sperm to mature, which gives the sperm more strength to swim, that is why it is recommended to do it every oher day, is your sperm count good? if so, you can do it every day, but just in case I would do it every other day. Another tip is to use a lubricant because for a woman having sex that often will dry her vagina so I recommend you to use Preseed lubricant, you can find it on the net only, it is the only lubricant in the market that will not kill sperm like other lubricants and saliva do. I would put her on the prenatal vitamins too. Good luck!
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2015-01-24 08:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋