2006-07-17 06:34:49 · 17 answers · asked by princess 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well the people who said you should have been on birth control are right, if not birthcontrol then at least a condom. BUT if you are pregnant its too late for any of that. YOU NEED to take a pregnancy test and you need to tell you father either way because even if you arent pregnant he needs to know that you need to be on borthcontrol. if you cant tell him go to planned parenthood where you can get it confidentially and for free. they also do free pregnancy tests. I assume that because you havent told him yet that you are young. well if you are pregnant you need to tel lhim so you can get medical attention for you and your baby. telling him sooner will be better because it will tell him that you are aware that you made a mistake but you are trying to handle it in a mature way.
i hope all turns out well and you are not pregnant but if you are you have to figure out what the rigth thing for you to do is anf the first step is telling your father or mother.
2006-07-17 07:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've missed your period this could be a sign that you are pregnant. Buy a pregnancy test kit, follow the instructions and this will give you an indication. If it shows up positive then the next thing to do would be to the doctor to confirm it.
If, at this stage, you are scared to tell your dad, talk to an older friend or relative that you trust, and get them to come along with you to the doctor's appointment for moral support. The doctor will book you in for a blood test (or take a sample there) which will confirm whether you are pregnant or not.
If it turns out that you are pregnant, you will have to tell your dad. Tell him as soon as possible, so he can hear it from you, and not anybody else, which would be even worse. But the best thing to do would be to bite the bullet and confide in him straight out. He may be angry at you at first, or at the very least, disappointed, but he is your dad and he loves you unconditionally. He will help you through this.
In the future, make sure you use protection if you have sex, but bear in mind it is illegal to have sex if you are under 16.
2006-07-17 06:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down is wut you need to do first. Maybe you should wait a month and see if your period comes on. If it doesnt go take a pregnancy test and see for sure. But you should have used a condom or birth control. But both would have been best. YOu may think you love a boi but sometimes it doesnt always work out. You should protect yourself and you should also tell ur father before 2 months. So that you can talk about all the possibilities for your child. Even abortion. Dont wait until its to l8te you'll have to talk to him sooner or later and sooner would be best. Im only 14 but I am very wise for my age.
Good Luck
2006-07-17 07:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by kirstar17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do would be to wait it out til like after you find out the results of the test and if it comes back positive then I would be worried what to tell dad, but if you sit down with him and explain the situation then I'm sure he probably won't be that angry with you but he probably will be mad. If you are pregnant though it's to late to be worried about how mad your dad will be you need to worry about if you want that baby or not.
2006-07-17 07:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you weren't scared in the first place, it's too late
to tell your dad "NOW" !
ASAP, see a doctor to confirm your possible baby-maybe !
If you are, or not, make the right decision !
A) YES, Give this little miracle a chance in life !
B) NOT, Don't be like butter,& spread !
2006-07-17 07:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well holy sheep **** darling where did you get that Bozo?? Did you or did you not here about those little items cal CONDOMS!!!!
Be honest with your Dad tell him who the idiot is and what you two did...........make the boy responsible for his actions !! And remeber you are just as much at fault !! It takes 2 to tango.... Good Luck
2006-07-17 06:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tuto@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex 3x and all 3x he ejaculated? You don't need to tell your Dad unless you are pregnant or if you want him to take you to an OB/GYN. You should really be on some birth control!
2006-07-17 06:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I can help you, if you dad has been there for you your whole life he needs to know. The first thing you need to do thought is make sure that you are pregnant. Then if you are sit him down and tell him that you have something to tell him then you just let it out. If you have anymore questions please e-mail me.
2006-07-17 07:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never had sex that is the mistake you made right there. Leave them boys alone. You are on your own, be prepared for your father to be all in your case.
You should have been scared when you laid up with that boy.
2006-07-18 08:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well before teliing anyone make sure you are actually pregnant. a pregnancy test is usually $10 so go get one!!if you are (and i hope you are not) try to find a way to tell him without getting him too mad. i don't know your father so i wouldn't know how he reacts to things. and next time use condoms or birth control!!!
2006-07-17 06:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋