I am not a bad person..I work hard(factory) have 2 beautiful daughters and a granddaughter(all are currently at home)and have been married for 24 years..I just want to be able to stop all the family deaths around me,be able to stop hiding all my sadness..whenever we start to get ahead then everything falls apart..We have spent in the last 42 days $3400. on our vehicles..my warranty had expired 800 miles ago so We had to fix them..I just for once would like to be able to buy a shirt at walmart or buy a paper without counting...I know I tell myself I should be happy to be alive..I lost my Dad after a year and a half of taking care of him with an unknown virus last Thankgiving..I truely dont understand why the man upstairs took him..my sister n law was killed in a car accident about a month ago(very good person) my brother n law was diagnosed with lou-gerhigs disease abou 1 1/2 years ago..he is going very quickly..why does all this happen to us..I wish I could pay bills and help people
2006-07-17 06:30:16 · 4 answers · asked by schultjulie 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Personal Finance
Bad things happen even to good people because of their bad karmas (actions) of a previous birth (no offence meant). However, you can reduce the harshness of your karmas by being spiritual. Hold on and dont give up. Also, dont stuff your mind with too much of negativities. Your sub-conscious mind will take in all your negative thoughts of failure, misery, poverty, etc. and direct you towards a life appropriate to your thoughts. When you are half-asleep, think a lot of positive thoughts like being a millionnaire, feeling happy, healthy and loved. Just when you are getting up in the morning (when not fully awake) and when you are just about dozing off to sleep in the night (when not fully asleep), the sub-conscious mind is very receptive. During such times think such healthy thoughts. You may even repeat suggestions like "I am wealthy and prosperous", "I am hail and healthy", "I have more than sufficient money for my commitments and liabilities", etc. These are called auto-suggestions. The idea is to 'cheat' your sub-conscious mind into leading your towards what you think you are! You see, your conscious mind is a questioning mind and it will ask logical questions which may put you off and make you think that things are not possible or practical. Your sub-conscious mind in a non-questioning mind and will take your commands whatsoever and obey you. If you say you are rich repeatedly, in due time you will become just that. So Dear, change your thoughts and change your life.
2006-07-17 07:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by SHANTHI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy man. It's a tough world out there. There are not too many people that don't have their share of problems (although you are going through a rough patch!) Everything will all work out in the end.
2006-07-17 06:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by ricgrif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to be a bad person for bad things to happen to you. some people say everything happens for a reason. you have to see it like god ttok your loved ones to a better place. Me, myself, within the last 3 months I cant begin to say all the bad things that happened to me, and i'm NOT a bad person. Stay strong and just try to make the best of this fiasco.
2006-07-17 06:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by buddgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to hear that but in this world there are plenty that might have experience worse than you. but just look around you, treasure whatever time you have been given to spend time together and be thankful because some of the people didn't even get a chance to say "i'm sorry" or "i love you" or "you bring joy to me and thanks for being with me all the way" count your blessings not your mishaps
2006-07-17 06:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by revelc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋