Ok...I have this friend on Ymessenger I've been talking to for years. He get's on this morning..starts chatting it up with me and then says "hey it's always nice to chat but I am looking for someone hot now". How would you take that and what woud you say?
2006-07-17 06:28:57 · 33 answers · asked by dakota_baby_469 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
rude, he is tired of just chatting wit u and is ready to cybersex
2006-07-17 06:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by coolcherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds rude but he could be joking and besides it doesnt matter since you arent real friends. You are just chatting online, where rudeness has no home. You can log off and say comments like that whenever you feel to just an online buddy because it is not real life. He doesnt know you in person therefore he does not care much about you so dont take anything he says seriously or to heart.
2006-07-17 06:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy did u a BIG favor - he was radically honest - damn straight! Rude yes but bad no! You are a big woman if you have given him the space to say that to you just like that. And it seems u did. He must have known that you would be ok.!
Would i feel bad if someone said these exact words to me - for sure! Would i say OK %$#@ then - yes i would whether i said it out loud or in my head. But those are my needy human shortcomings. Honesty is a tough rode. I applaud ur chat friend.
I would say: "hope you find someone really!! hot and hot is what you expected it to be! Come to think of it.... I like hot to! Buh bye now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
2006-07-17 09:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure... I can't believe someone you've been chatting with for years could be that rude and actually be serious. I think he was probably just kidding around.
2006-07-17 06:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps a little rude but maybe he was just being honest! it's possible he was being friendly with you and not looking for anything more than that. Was something said in regards to moving your relationship further?
2006-07-17 06:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by MadMaxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally not rude. He's just being open and honest. Isn't that what all the women say they want (unless you ARE hot in which case he was being rude).
2006-07-17 06:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by anthonydavidpirtle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is in essence saying " I don;t want to wast time online with anyone unless I am going to get some."
So, either you need to say "Hey Babe, I am hot, lets go do it until we can't do it anymore"
OR
Say "You are an idiot. Having a friend is more important that getting your rocks off. Don't waste my time in the future either."
2006-07-17 06:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Atom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say he was being rude,I would say he was being truthful! Maybe he wants to keep you as a friend but is looking for something naughty on the net so just don't sweat it!!!!
2006-07-17 06:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was quite rude of him. But, being a man, he was probably only thoughtless, not needlessly mean. He probably didn't mean to imply that you aren't hot - maybe he's looking for someone who lives closer to him?
2006-07-17 06:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by savagescorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just depends are only Freinds and how did he say? well i guess no matter what it was either a little rude and hurt because he is your friend or it hurt alot because you kind of like him, either way i would of told him the same and tpld not to talk to you anymore!!!!
2006-07-17 06:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by Robby V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's busy. Quit thinking of only yourself. Other people have things to do other than talking to you. Maybe you are the rude one, not letting him have time to himself.
2006-07-17 06:32:01 · answer #11 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋