i dont kno if i like him anymore..weve been going out for almost 3 months now and i just dont kno if the spark is there anymore...the reason i think i may not like him is becuz i barely think bout him i think bout the other 4 guys that like me...what should i do...my friends say i should stay with him but i rele dont know if the spark is there anymore becuase when we hang its not fun anymore and when he comes over i dont rele care anymore. HELP!!!
2006-07-17 06:18:30 · 43 answers · asked by simfreak07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do u think i should tell my boyfriend we should go on a break or should i just stay with him...
2006-07-17 06:22:05 · update #1
If he is your friend and more than just your boyfriend be honest with him.You will find your self treating him bad unconsciously .Always be nice about it but you have to be true to yourself.Please tell him its only fair to you and him
2006-07-17 06:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I think that you pretty much just answered your own question. Can you remember why you got with him in the first place? What drew your attention to him? Do not think about the other 4 people, only you and he for a moment as that is the problem that you have at hand. If you reflect back and realize that you and he could never be happy then you will need to sit down with your boyfriend and tell him that you are unhappy within this relationship and that you will have to graceful back out. Tell him he was very kind and that you enjoyed your time with him. You will feel better by letting him know that it was you and not he that was the problem and that he is a good and wonderful person no matter what. Now, why are there 4 other people in you life? You need to slow down girl.....take time for yourself and maybe once giving yourself some time to do a bit of soul searching you will find yourself and you may find out just what make you happy.
2006-07-17 06:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should remember the grass isn't always greener on the other side!! Of course you aren't having as much fun, you probably aren't letting yourself. You are taking to much time thinking about other boys.....but that doesn't mean things are better over there. Until you honestly give this guy a chance with your whole heart you will always have the problem of wanting something else. I used to do the same thing and now I'm engaged to be married. If you are constantly looking for "something" better you will never truely be happy.
2006-07-17 06:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by kami m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I hope I can help a little. Well, here it goes... I think that its great to have the spark in your life. Its the best feeling in the world I Love that feeling. I was going out with girls I meet at clubs fall in Love and fall out of love in a short time. With that experience I took that everyone wants the high from being in love and no one wants to hurt from working at the relationship. In short find a man that is truly your best friend and make sure that trust and honesty are the key factors. I know its easier said then done. But trust me its a good fit.
2006-07-17 06:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by smallbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up NOW.
One of the reasons the divorce rate is so high because people listen to their friends and stay with people they shouldn't. Don't EVER settle. If you are not happy after only 3 months why invest more time in a dud relationship.
I have been married 24 years (today) and my heart STILL skips a beat when he walks in the room.
2006-07-17 06:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend mark are going through the same thing I dont really know if the spark is there either. I mean we been going out for14 months now and everytime he calls or wants to come over its like not again
But what you should do is talk to him Tell him how you feel then he'll tell you how he feels It'll all work out because if you do you gone lose someone special like I did Mark and those other for guys are gonna try you. Im just saying talk to him first and if it dont work out then you have to move on.........Holla
2006-07-17 06:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he treats you nice, you should stay with him. But if there is not spark at all and no chance of it returning leave him. If any of these other guys are about looks, don't go with them either. Go for guys that will treat you right and respect you regardless of their looks. But if there is no interest, there is no sense in staying together. But if I were you, i'd try new things with him and give him another week or two and try and see if you can get that spark back.
2006-07-17 06:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by ledzkreep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fallen out of love with him. Tell him you need some space and want to stay away for some time to think about your relationship. Dont break up. You may be giving up something good just because some other guys look at you as good hunting prey. Stay away from him for some time. Maybe he is spending too much time with you and not giving you time to chill out with your own friends too. and to be yourself/
2006-07-17 06:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that sparks don't work and you just boyfriend and girlfriend and you no need to stay there. if married that different .... but you free and if other guys like you and then you should go for it. and you don't have promise ring or plan to get married then not worry. and just do what best for you and your friends should be there for you and not telling you to stay with him.. why?????
I know my wife and We are married for 9 years and still talk about my wfie to all those women and people I share with and my kids too. and that what you want not just nothing about him and not worth your time msile.
I say go dump that boyfriend and date alot of guys and there is no limted not to see or date even if boyfriend girlfriend smile.
2006-07-17 06:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go for someone else becuz once the spark is gone u will never feel the same way bout him again. And u should always listen to your heart .
2006-07-17 06:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by shaun t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is nothing...so it's not really that big of a deal if you break up with him. It's not like you have been dating for a long time. I can tell you are young too so you might as well try some other guys.
2006-07-17 06:21:54 · answer #11 · answered by miller8786 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋