what is the best way to avoid quarrels in a family, mostly with mother- in-law and other in laws when you are living in a joint family. In our home there are six members: me, my hubby, two kids and hubby's parents. children spent most of their time with their grandparents and they love them very much.
2006-07-17 06:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by pretty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel for you. I have been there. My mother-in-law lived with my family for ten years. It is extremely trying even if you love them very much. My advice is communicate often and honestly about your feelings. Also, prioritize your relationships making your marriage come first. Hopefully, you can get your husband to do the same, because you may have to throw them out one day and you want your husband on your side not theirs.
2006-07-17 06:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my fiance and I lived with my parents last year. It was pretty tough. I think the best way to get through it (or so my fiance says lol) is to take a deep breathe, try not to argue, and find something you have in common with you in-laws. My fiance would go out with my dad and help with fix up his old car. Although he didnt really enjoy it all that much, he did to have something in common with my dad, so they could enjoy doing something together, instead of arguing over things.
2006-07-17 06:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid being at home at the same time as the in-laws. If that doesn't work just swallow your pride and go with the flow with things, just to make your marriage work until you move out.
2006-07-17 06:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by luvinmjc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i live in the same situation. myself, my husband and my son and mother in law. i cant stand my mother in law. i avoid quarrels by going into another room and sitting for a little bit so i can calm down. my mother in law and i fight all the time.
2006-07-17 06:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Exotic Pink 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be hard tring to avoid conflicts in such a large family. You have to understand that you are living with them as an adult but you must still follow their rules and wishes. My advice is to go and get a place for you own family.
2006-07-17 06:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill both of your hubby's parents and replace them with close friends of yours.... If your kids suspect anything tell them that their grandparents went on "Extreme Makeover"
2006-07-17 06:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by getlucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by hobin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to avoid drama-
Get your own spot!!!!
Or they should get their own spot!!!
The kids will love their grandparents no less!
Good luck w/that.
2006-07-17 06:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by M J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IT SUCKS LEAVING WITH IN LAWS BUT JUST HAVE A FAMILY MEETING AND TALK ABOUT WHAT BOTHERS EVERYBODY, OR THERE WILL BE A TIME WHERE ALL HELL COULD BREAK LOOSE!!
2006-07-17 06:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by LADY J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a sit down with everyone and talk about what troubles you all.
2006-07-17 06:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋