Will i go to hell?

Question

ok. Im a J.O. (If u dont kno what it means im me) I'm only 14 and I had Sexually Intercoarse over 10 times. I also smoke. I am a christian though. But I am hooked. I try to stop my bad habbits, but when i want stuff I make sure that i will get it. I don't have that much selfcontrol. But, I really dont want to stop either. I dont kno what to do. Will i go to hell?

Answer 1

no God loves you

Answer 2

Thats an interesting question, and i would say probably not. U havent killed anybody or urself.The thing about quitting is that u have to want it, and most of the time u need support when u try and kick a habit. I advise u stop smoking and having sex but i would say smoking is worse to ur health so start w/ one not both. Do ur parents know any of this? I'm gonna say they dont bc ur not askin them. Leave this stuff behind, be a kid. And becoming pregnant at ur age will change ur life forever. I just hope ur rdy for that if it happens. And u shouldnt smoke when u get pregnant. I wish u all the best in ur efforts to do whatever u think is a good decision, i hope u make the right ones.

Answer 3

Alasia, whether you will go to hell depends on what you would be doing from this point on after you finish reading my answer. Although the bible does not explicitly say pre-marital sex is forbidden, the bible does strongly discourage sexual immoralities. Most of Christians would believe pre-marital sex is one of them. Otherwise, you yourself will not be asking the question.

If you truly seek help within your church for counseling, or other christian counseling organizations if your church can not provide what you need, you will not be going to hell. However, if you know what you are doing is wrong, and continue doing it. You are most likely on the path to hell.
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Now, on a side note for the rest of the public: if one really studies the bible, he would find that there is no concrete description of the Hell whatsoever. Rather, Hell seems to be a state of an environment, instead of a physical place where sinful souls suffer for eternity. Some other religions have much better description of hell, such as 18 levels of hells and with the 18th level at the bottom being the wickedest and most in-durable place in heaven or earth. Those descriptions are far more imaginative and descriptive. Perhaps, God is truly kind as not to let us know what Hell is truly like....

Answer 4

Before you worry about going to hell at the end of your life on earth, you should start worrying about making HELL out of your present life on Earth.

You need to find the strength and determination to respect yourself and your body. The problem with today's Church is that they preach too much on not Sinning when what you need is Strength and Will-Power. You can get that from your Faith but you need good spiritual guidance, and mind you, it doesn't make the sex or smoke any less pleasurable. To stop that you need to develop WILL POWER.

Go and find out if there are motivational videos and/or books which can help you to be Happy and Focused on what other good kids of your age are doing and enjoying at this point in their life's journey. Be Well.

And No, God does not judge you like that - at least that's how Christians are supposed to view it. By asking and doubting yourself at this stage, you are already on the path of repentance, keep it going and you will be OK. Only those who are in circumstances where they are forced to do sex trade, are spiritually innocent and not condemned even if they have to continue doing it. You are doing it for 'fun' and kicks - it's dangerous for someone of your age to do this.

Answer 5

No God is forgiving.
All god wants to know is that you try to demonstrate god on Earth. If he know you try, that's what counts. Do the best you can! Bring forth love, master addictions/desires, let go of attachments and pray.

Here's a list of things to fallow this life that can bring you to a higher level.

1) Love (your self, others, objects because were all god)
2) Serve (serving is loving and also being god)
3) Letting go of Attachments
4) balance (have a healthy balance in every aspect of life)
5) Will Power (make being spiritual path your top most important priority)
6) Pray (pray for help, protection, and light)

Answer 6

I don't think you'll go to hell but your killing your body. you may want to sit down and really think about what you want to do with your life, if you want to live till 20 keeps up your bad habbits, but if you want to get old and maybe be a grandmother some day, quite the cigs.

just start new habits.the best way of getting rid of bad habbits is making good ones.jog for a mile every day or write a song or join a sport.

Answer 7

whoa.
You need to stop because going to hell isn't your worse fear right now.
The rest of your life is what you need to worry about.
Could it be that you feel as if your not getting enough love from friends or family that you feel the need to find it somewhere else?
Self control can be tricky sometimes, I admit, but you have to put that love in your self and respect for your body in able to say no.
Do you think others respect or really like you for the fact that you are "easy
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NO
they don't so before you worry about going to hell Worry about the hell your going through in the present.
Hopefully by the time you mature more you will realize your mistakes and you probally feel very remorseful and wish you could change the past.
Ask God to give you strength and guidance and always always keep ya head up.




Done.

Answer 8

unless you truly and deeply repent to our heavenly father you will.

clearly in the bible it states that you're supposed to wait until you're married to have sexual intercourse. wouldn't you rather save yourself for the one person that you will eternally love rather than a bunch of random guys that you'll like for 1 year? also, protection doesn't 100% protect you from pregnancy and std's so you should probably stop while you have a chance.

repent and God will forgive you, he is a forgiving God. but if you continue to do these things, you will go to Hell, i'd rather not go there...would you?

also, quit the cigarettes, they're doing nothing but hurting your body. you can also go to jail since you're a minor and you're not supposed to smoke...hopefully no policemen use yahoo! answers...

there is such thing as secondary virginity, practice it!

good luck in everything you do!

Answer 9

Your 14, you need to start deciding whats important in your life. Like your HEALTH, the fact that you've had sex already is scary to me.

You need to change the way you treat yourself.
Treat yourself and your body better. No more SEX, and get help if you can't stop smoking on your own. I just don't get why people start smoking, its proven to be bad for you and the others around you, it's expensive, and you stink from it. Please stop smoking!!

No, I don't think you'll go to hell, but wouldn't it be nice to feel better about yourself

Answer 10

You probably shouldn't be doing that at that young of an age, but it is not my job to judge you, leave that to Jesus. A lot of people make decisions that they know are probably not the right ones to make, but I do not think god will punish you for any of this, or hell would be getting awfully overpopulated.

Answer 11

u kno wat's right and wrong, obviously. u should go talk to ur youth pastor or a trusted youth worker. they will help a lot!! and pray about it. God will always forgive u if u ask. but he isn't happy with the "i kno it's wrong but i can ask forgiveness later". i've been thru those things 2. talk to someone and ask for help.