See I am 12 almost 13 and I don't have much of well "boobs" I meen most my friends don't either, but my best friend is always getting hit on and stuff but she's not realy nice at all on the other hand. People always say I got a nice caractor and I'm pretty but I don't fell like it cause I always know think that cause I don't have boobs that I'm not pretty. Is there a "natural" way to make them come in faster. Or do u think guys still think ur pretty if u don't have big boobs? Pls help me. Any 1 and every1.
2006-07-17 06:02:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Our society is horrible. You're 12 and don't feel pretty enough because you don't have big boobs... le sigh. Listen, I'm 22 and I'm a 32B (itty bitty). I'm not trying to sound conceited, but I do get a little extra attention from guys. A barista will buy me a coffee every now and then or some guy will hold a door open for me when I'm half a minute from the door... I feel that I don't get this attention due to my physical appearance (and when I don't get the attention, I'm not blaming it on my small chest). I feel that I get this attention because of the way I carry myself. Just be confident and have self-esteem. I know it's hard because I didn't have much esteem for myself until I was 20. But really, it's all about confidence. A guy will not want you asking him if he thinks you're still pretty despite your small boobs. Just love yourself because you're only 12 and your chest doesn't stop maturing until your early 20s anyway. Hope this helps.
2006-07-17 06:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Naomicles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. They will come in when the time is right. But to tell you the truth, and I am a guy, most guys arent all that crazy about boobs as many people think. Most people I talk to would rather have a nice looking girl with boobs not that big than another girl with just big boobs. You probably are pretty but your still young so don't even sweat it. Hope I've helped. Good Luck!!
2006-07-17 13:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by lamborghini_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need boobs to look or fell pretty, if a guy is going to hit on u because of ur boobs then hes not really into u . u have to fell comfortable in ur self . let me tell u , when i was 13 i didn't any now I'm 24 n I'm a 36d .
just relax I'll come in time.
2006-07-17 13:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by beba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things sweetie. The girls (your boobs) will show up when your body is ready for them. 12 going on 13 is an awkward stage - you'll grow out of it and your body will curve out in all the right places.
I know that sounds like a lame adult thing to say - but it really is true. Hang in there and enjoy things the way that they are!
BTW - why are you best friends with a girl who isn't nice?
2006-07-17 13:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by tequila_girl98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh that was me when i was your age. I'm 21 now. Trust me boob are all over tv but boobs aren't all that great you know lol... My best friend and I make fun of girls with big boobs and we say how it must suck to be hit on all the time cuz of their boobs... also they're boobs are going to hang and sag when they get old. Um loOok at Gwen Stefani!! SHe's super freakin' flat chested i like how she hasn't had her boobs done even though she has all this money.. she's awesome! but yea don't worry about it.. boobs aren't a big deal. Use a paded bra if you want ... if you gain weight your boobs might get bigger since all the fat you're storing in your body.. but yea just love yourself for who you are.. it's only going to get worse when you get old!! So love yourself.. and if a guy doesn't like you because you don't have boobs it's cuz he's a big jerk face and you shouldn't be dating guys like that anyways... but yea :P LOve yourself :)
2006-07-17 13:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ginger B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when you get a little older, you will find out that boob size is overrated and character (not caractor) is underrated. You still have a lot of developing to do...do you have a mom or female relative you can go and have "girl talk"? this is a good time...do not go to people your own age because they are not old enough to have the answers that you need; they have the same concerns as you do.I hope this helps.
2006-07-17 13:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, for one, much prefer small breasts. I'm sure there's other guys out there that do as well. But, considering your age, you are far from finished in the growing dept. All things in time.
2006-07-17 13:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by Joe E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally, guys think you`re pretty even without boobs. but breasts do make your figure look better, and then , like, if you wear a tee shirt, it always looks better if you have breasts. try using padded bras.
2006-07-17 13:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your pretty anyway!! Let it all happen naturally and don't worry about what others think... just have fun... be your age...... You're too young to be thinking about being hit on... ! I'm trying to be nice, not snotty ;o)
2006-07-17 13:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Brian G or Dana G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boobs are not everything. attitude really is... just wait and your time will come. when you look for it.... what your looking for will not come but the minute you stop looking it will hit you in the face!
2006-07-17 13:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋