im at my aunts house . shes 5 years older han me and we get along fine. shes a teengaer. so her mom doesnt know english and gets on my last nerves! everytime she doesnt hear something she says what and when i say nvm she gets akll mad. when im talking to my normal aunt then she gets all nosy and trys to read my lips and when i talk to my aunt in english she gets mad. but im so annoyed! she is jelous that i like my uncle and tryes to always get my attention which i really hate. i camnt tell her to shutup or leave me alone. wat should i do?
2006-07-17 06:00:44 · 15 answers · asked by open_minded_grl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you live in USA, tell her that English is the national language & she needs to learn it. If you are messing around with your Uncle, call Jerry Springer (312-321-5365) & tell him about it!
2006-07-17 06:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a language barrier between u and ur aunt. Than ur aunt might over suspicious. Thirdly do u mind telling me how is ur uncle related to ur aunt?? That will most probably solve the jealous part.
Do not try to be rude to ur aunt's mom as she is an elder to u whether u like it or not. Trust me on this being rude to her will definitely bring u greater problems later on.
i have to speak 3 different dialects to my family members as a whole. Chinese, Hokkien, English and maybe a mixture of everything including Malay language.... that's just to break to language barrier further more i have to control the speed i talk as well... Try to communicate to ur aunt's mom in her common language if u are not talking anything bad about her, don bother wat she is trying to do or doing.
2006-07-17 06:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Headache 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should realize that she can not help her situation. I understand your frustrations but it is not fair to her the way you are acting. You should find other things to occupy your time. Like going out with friends, reading a book, watching tv in a different room, or some other distracting thing. Don't completely ignore her but don't be rude to her either.
2006-07-17 06:06:20 · answer #3 · answered by natoya07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if your at your aunts house, there is not much you can do then.Just try to ignore her when you can and stay away from her when you can.
2006-07-17 06:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some attention till she leave you alone or chill out somewhere else.
2006-07-17 06:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell.
2006-07-17 06:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Si 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you try and look at the situation from her perspective.
a little more compassion in our lives would solve a lot of the world's problems.
2006-07-17 06:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean "my real aunt" and then "my other aunt"? Try and respect her, it's her house.
2006-07-17 06:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by littlebopeep 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like a spoiled brat.. your aunt probably feels left out.
2006-07-17 06:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to lighten up and talk to your aunt and her mother and stop being so rude to them. they probably can't wait for you to leave since your so rude!
2006-07-17 06:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by joek342003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋