what ahould i do
2006-07-17 05:59:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ask urself this. Are u ready to be responsible for someone other than u? R u ready for someone else to completelty depend on you? Would ur parents be ok with it? How old is ur boyfriend? If you dont want a child tell him no. If he actually loves you like i'm sure hes been saying he'll be ok w/ it and wait. If he leaves u bc of this, dont take him back. Babies r a lot of work during pregnancy and afterwards as well as expensive and time consuming. But they are also fun and a joy to have. I dont have children of my own bc i dont want any. I'm 18. Also i would say u need to finish high school before you have a baby. Good luck for what is yet to come.
2006-07-17 06:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by ksblue594 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Go babysit a new born for a week.
Then go babysit a 1 and 2 year old.
Your toooooooo YOUNG to have a baby, not to mention your still in school. If your not, you need to go back.
Finish school, find a good job that you like start saving for a house, get married then have a baby.
If you start now, you'll never be able to take care of a baby the way it needs to be taken care of. You have to be a responsible adult before you can raise a baby.
Enjoy your teen years, because once you get a full time job and have babies, you won't have the freedoms you do now, or all the worries.
2006-07-17 06:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please wait. I had my first at 30 and she is still a handful. There is so much fun to be had as a teenager and young adult. Enjoy the freedom of your life now and tell the boyfriend to get a grip. A strong woman is one who makes up her own mind and does not give into presure. There is so much left to learn when you are 16 and toting around a young child will not make it easy for you. I am glad I waited because now with my education and the things I have learned along the way man or no man I am ok. Respect yourself.
2006-07-17 06:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by monkey f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 your still a baby yourself do you realise what it takes to satisfiy the needs of a baby first thing would be up every hour in the night when schools the next morning, second would be a car for all the doctors visits,BLEIVE me you are NOT ready tell him that you are not ready and if he dont accept it he didn't want you for you in the first place he was just looking for someone to have his baby..
2006-07-17 06:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have your life ahead of you. Dont have a baby. Even if he threatens to leave you. Compromise with him and say hey i am not ready to have a baby can we wait 10 years. If you have a baby now, you wont be able to do things with your friends, like go clubbing or partying, or enjoy college life or your senior year of high school, or life like other kids your age. Having a baby is a LOT of RESPONSIBILITY. I think you should wait and dont let him run ur life right now. Good luck.
2006-07-17 06:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by paradiseglf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not suggest having the baby now, you might want to wait a few years. I truly think that it is your decision. Are you financially ready to have this baby? Hope everything works out for the best. Good Luck
2006-07-17 06:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Boy friend to grow up and smell the coffee !!! there are to many teen Moms out here with wanna be (BIG MEN)teen fathers who have no *&%$ idea what it takes to raise a child in tyhis world today. Does he even have a job to take care of you with!! Who pays the medical bills TAX payers!! tell him to go spank his Monkey you are only 16 and need to get a good education so you don't have to count on idiots like him to survive.
2006-07-17 06:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Tuto@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cross your legs and tell him that you're just a baby yourself. You're too young to be starting a family. You need to get an education and grow up a bit yourself before you start a family. You need to have a life of your own and be able to provide for a baby.
2006-07-17 06:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't i was 16 when i had my baby and i wish i had wait i real can go out cuz of my baby and also how do u know ur going to spend the rest of ur life with him my baby daddy is a *** he comes around and stuff but he other gurl so think about
2006-07-17 06:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out quick at 16 your biologicaly not ready to have a baby and its very dangerous. Plus, if you boyfriend really loves you he can wait.
2006-07-17 06:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by armwrestlemania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋