He is sex crazy. He loves for other guys to look at me and make their wives of girlfriends angry. Is this normal? It drives him crazy for other guys to be attracted to me. He dresses me up really trashy and takes me shopping. He loves it when younger guys can't stop looking. We have sex every night and I love it. Any other guys out there that like to do the same with their wives or girlfriends?
2006-07-17 05:43:58 · 38 answers · asked by Kelli C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You asked “Any other guys out there that like to do the same with their wives or girlfriends?” I love doing this & my wife will occasionally indulge me by being daring and risque. At a restaurant one night I said she'd look better without her bra being visible under her blouse. She said that she couldn't go bra-less under a top that was totally transparent. However, she exited the ladies' room looking great & a little embarrassed. Her breasts were clearly visible. It was fun for both of us. It depends on you & your husband whether this is a problem. Is he making you do something you don’t want to do? If so there’s a problem. This can be overdone but once in a while, if you both agree, it can be fun.
2006-07-22 17:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Scalawag-101 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are okay with this then nothing else matters, none of our opinions... but if you're asking this becasue he sounds kinda weird, then you shuld take him to joint couples therapy... because it sounds like he has some issues he developed when he was younger... Wanting to make other people jealous to the point of making you look trashy is not normal... especially if you think it's trashy... personally, all the guys i know hate it when their girlfriends dress trashy... they want a wild girl in bed, but in public they want a respectalbe person... you can only invite trouble by making people jealous...
or do you like the attention as well?
2006-07-17 05:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by constanze_mylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful......
If this is a big turn on and he is so into other guys looking at you, and probably lusting after you, no-telling what he may later on suggest for you to do if he hasn't already.
If its only every now and then he wants you doing this, I guess its ok, but if its all the time, then I dont think its normal and it could lead to other things.
And in our world today, dressing trashy could get the attention of the wrong one, if you know what I mean.
2006-07-17 06:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rallyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is how do you feel about it? do you feel good or sad , sexy or trashy, empowered or degraded? or a combination. If the good outweighs the bad and it sounds like it does, then I guess it doesn't matter what other guys do. If on the other hand the reverse is true then perhaps you need to stand up to your husband and make some changes.
2006-07-17 06:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. This is usually a sign that he is unhappy with the "real" you. In his head he is thinking, "Look who I'm banging!!" But for him to start to think that, he has to make you into what he wants. If at any time you tell him you don't want to dress up like that, the thoughts of cheating will start to surface and he will be looking elsewhere for that trashy person he really wants.
2006-07-17 05:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by sallymarlyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am the same way with my wife. I love to dress her up trashy. Last night I had her wear a Hefty trash bag. I heard a lot of catty remarks, but you know, garbage in garbage out. I thought she was the pick of the litter.
2006-07-17 05:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 2 years old and don't have an opinion?? Otherwise I'd assume you dress like that to get attention and you like it! You probably love to look trashy.
2006-07-17 05:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by itsjustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
its seems your a guinea pig and if you think you are making people angry by being trashy i have to say ,lmao and a lol,because that is not the case your a trophy to one but an eye sore to more.
I think its great to be proud of your wife's beauty and be happy she choose you ,but not to play it off as an object.Maybe he is a homo.
2006-07-17 05:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by once_bitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem if he has to dress you up and show you off. Don't you think so? That's not a normal relationship. He should be proud of you just the way you are. He needs help.
2006-07-17 05:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men do not like other men looking at their wives and girlfriends this way. I know my dad would flip if my mother, his sister or me his daughter looked a little bit sexy. He wanted us to practally look like men short hair and the whole thing. That was really extreme and we hated it. A few men want their signifigant others to look totally sexy in public most just want them to look pretty.
2006-07-17 05:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋